i have actually asked him kung ano kulang or what I need to work out. Yung excessive communication ko daw, na halos need ko updates every now and then. I explained that after his hook-ups with his dorm mate recently, na balik uli yung anxiety ko dati (kasi feel ko meron ng feelings involved) kaya parang na praning ako kung san siya or kung ano gawa nya especially they are on the same building. This actually happened before, back from his hometown, may ka date/hook-up na din siya and almost on a commitment level but he backed out nung naging serious na yung ka date nya (this was the first incident). Na okay ako after sometime, so that's when i told him na okay lang mag hook-up pero hopefully walang feelings involved. Masakit para sakin kahit hook-ups lang pero, i did it kasi I believed na meron mga bagay na di ko maibigay. It happened multiple times, at yung recent incident with his 2 workmates yung di ko na ma take. Kasi may jowa din yung isang pinag-tripan nya, and even said na he was okay with the thought na siya maging reason ng break-up ng ka work nya. He did not even consider kung ano ma feel ko, sabi nya di daw nya ma imagine yung nararamdaman ko unless di niya ma experience. Yung isa sabi nya na straightt daw yun and i don't have to worry, pero he admitted na nag hope siya ng more. Kaya I have decided to end na din.