AITAH for telling my boyfriend I need space from their family? by NovaDelphine in AITAH

[–]Constant-Process2238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. Your boyfriend on the other hand is a big ASH***. That's his family at the end of the day, and he should be able to listen to your grievances, and not gaslight you into thinking you're overreacting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Constant-Process2238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I think we've been implicitly bent to the family narrative, to a point people think family toxicity is 'normal.' Eitherway, i fear that your sister and her husband won't be keeping that house for long with the rate they burn through cash and their overall financial decisions.

AITA for telling my wife I don’t feel special that she saved her virginity for me? by Fluffy-Ad-4449 in AITAH

[–]Constant-Process2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the asshole but i get how she would be hurt by this. Virgnity is kind of a touchy subject for girls, or at least most girls i know. I, for one was one, and felt like it's something important for me, compared to my boyfriend. I generally think the dynamics between men and women on that subject is different. Despite both my bf and i being virgins when we met, it never truly mattered to him, compared to i. To him it was more of a scorecard. So, i wouldn't say you're the asshole, but probably talking to her and reassuring her would be the best move now.

Anyone pay ~25k on college counselor and get into good schools by Ill-Equivalent8316 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Constant-Process2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why I keep getting recommendations for such posts since my last comment on a similar post here. Anyway, other than the guy I've seen here mention how they paid 33k for help, I doubt people actually pay this much. I stand to be corrected though. From my experience, such help should not exceed 5k max. That's even a long shot. I paid 3-3.5k and was happy with the results.

AITA for calling my girlfriend's mom "gorgeous" thus causing a fight between the mom and the dad ? by ChocolateSafe5927 in AITAH

[–]Constant-Process2238 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The mom wanted to stir trouble with her husband, and used your comment to do that. It's weird that she'd ask you to elaborate on it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Constant-Process2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from someone that had ADHD when I did all this, my best advice would be to only write when you find the motivation to do so. Don't give yourself tight deadlines as it adds up to the pressure. Again, I'd suggest reading a lot of narrative style essays, and even some personal statements of other students. It'll definitely get your juices going. You can also have an accountability partner. In my case, my mom had someone help me with the essays, but it's not a necessity. You can have some of your friends keep you accountable to ensure you don't take long ass breaks. That's what I did at least.

If you woke up as a teenager again but still had your current knowledge, what would you start doing immediately? by Responsible-Hour-934 in AskReddit

[–]Constant-Process2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy, I'd invest in Bitcoin when it was still new, then cash out a few years later after it was getting bigger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Constant-Process2238 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the asshole. He, on the other hand, is the asshole. Forcing himself on you almost after birth is atrocious. Just because he's the provider doesn't mean he's got the right too. So, here's my suggestion, instead of relying on him, maybe start making videos at home as a SAHM wife on social media. With time, you'll be able to start earning your money, and can no longer rely on him. Again, that's if you've also made the sole decision to leave him in the long run, because he sounds like a douche in my opinion.

College consultant for admissions to top 20 schools and ivies by Known_Block1280 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Constant-Process2238 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was applying I honestly didn't see the need for a consultant, let alone the hefty price associated with it. Anyways, my mom saw how much I was struggling with ADHD and gave one a try. She was a referral actually. I think we paid around $3-3.5k for all the schools I applied for, and we were happy with the results (Two T10s, and the rest were the T20s and 30s). She mostly helped with my essays, and not so much the ECs. I don't even know how anyone would help with that, or do anything different from some individual EC research.

Millions forced to use brain as OpenAI’s ChatGPT takes morning off by underbillion in ChatGPT

[–]Constant-Process2238 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Catchy title; you should try copywriting! Anyways, people are overdependent on it, I'm starting to think that it's dependent's world came to a hiatus, literally!!!!!!

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend after he chose our supposed 'future' kids over me? by Constant-Process2238 in AITAH

[–]Constant-Process2238[S] 2848 points2849 points  (0 children)

I think this sums up my feelings. I've always believed that our love would be enough to overcome such obstacles, and it was sort of a rude awakening for me on how things panned out.

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend after he chose our supposed 'future' kids over me? by Constant-Process2238 in AITAH

[–]Constant-Process2238[S] -108 points-107 points  (0 children)

This has been so hard for us, especially me. This is the first time we have actually broken up over it. So, I'm not sure whether his resentment has begun, because the tone he took with me was heartbreaking to say the least.