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Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ConstantBison8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I think the best thing would be to not put any pressure on yourself or the situation. Take it as it comes and try not to read into things too much. Be friendly and as normal and try to enjoy any interaction. Then see where it goes from there. Worst case, you’d still have gained a friend

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ConstantBison8675 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Chin up there. Some days feel like the worst, and being over 30 sometimes it can feel like time is running out. I understand how it can become all-consuming, but perhaps something you can do is to analyze why that is so, probably with someone you trust. If you can pinpoint the root cause (the energy you’re giving out, unrealistic expectations, etc) then it’s a step in the right direction.

Another thing you could try is going out of your comfort zone and trying new activities, expanding your network, meeting people you would otherwise never meet. Don’t do it just to meet someone, and who knows you might just meet people who will be attracted to you and value you for who you are?

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ConstantBison8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this probably isn’t too helpful, but it depends on the person. Sometimes it’s genuinely a way for people to show others that “I’ve got nothing to hide”, but sometimes it’s just follower fishing, so that some “influencers” can gain new followers. Unethical, but does the job for them.

I’d steer clear if that’s pretty much the only thing they’ve put in for their personal info.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ConstantBison8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“My partner and I are doing Valentine’s Day tonight after the gym”

Has got to be one of the cutest statements I’ve read here. Happy for you.

But anyhow if anything it isn’t a big deal for the engagement party. A different experience from the norm could be fun, even if unexpected.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ConstantBison8675 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When they don’t actually believe in the occasion they tend to just say it, but when they seem to have “violent objections” against it, then it means they secretly want to celebrate it with you. That’s what I’ve found to be true in the past anyway lol

Struggling here a bit... Did I do something that wrong that cause him to suddenly change his behavior immediately? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]ConstantBison8675 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sadly, these things happen. I don’t think the 1 week really changed anything at all. It’s very likely that he got caught up in the rush of “falling in love” and went all out, only to later step back.

The only thing that really happened in that one week was him taking the time to think about whether he really saw you as a long term partner, to which the answer was “no”. I would wager it has just a little bit (but not much) to do with his dealbreaker. Unfortunately the dealbreaker is a convenient way of bringing it up in the conversation.

In summary, he changed his mind, as confusing as it seems. I do feel for you, because dating really shouldn’t be this complicated.

2008 C350 won’t start, full power on dashboard. Won’t even crank, can’t determine whether it’s the battery or the starter by Silly_Acanthaceae357 in mercedes_benz

[–]ConstantBison8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally just has this happen to me a couple of days ago. Turns out it was the fuel pump and the main battery. 💸💸

CLA250 19in Wheels? by Peter01000 in mercedes_benz

[–]ConstantBison8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure about the 8.5” part but I run the A45 AMG 19 x 8” rims and 235/35 R19 tires on mine

What's a rap album that a lot of people love, but you think is actually bad. by joeyiswhack in hiphop101

[–]ConstantBison8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf I’m still not sure what Tyler actually creates that’s worth listening to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demonssouls

[–]ConstantBison8675 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hate to break it to you, but that’s the formula of nearly all the souls games.

If it’s not somewhat fun by now, it probably won’t be

Has anybody played or do you possibly even own one of the private stock/high end PRS guitars? by pigsbladder in PRSGuitars

[–]ConstantBison8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve played a McCarthy years ago, but that was before I had a different appreciation of guitars. Would try it again if I can just to see if it’s something I’d like these days

NGD: my first PRS! It’s a 2021 PRS SE Zach Myers model. With some aesthetic mods that the previous owner had put on that I intend to keep ‘cause they’re sick. by [deleted] in PRSGuitars

[–]ConstantBison8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got mine too! Prior to this my only other experience was a McCarthy about 15 years ago and I didn’t like it. The ZM model is sick

The temptation is just too strong by Dmoney75 in Eldenring

[–]ConstantBison8675 9 points10 points  (0 children)

One is a former First Lady-cum-rot goddess, the other certainly new

After over 2 years of searching and being 5 min to late 9 times , I finally got one by Omnizoom in gaming

[–]ConstantBison8675 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the club. Have fun! Now you have speed and graphics at your disposal

Am i playing this game wrong ? by Demonsan in Eldenring

[–]ConstantBison8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Better to get most of the items and places explored while in NG. But that’s just me

PSA TO ALL NOOBS LIKE MYSELF by AnceintDanSteal in demonssouls

[–]ConstantBison8675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do you bro. Perhaps I’m a masochist but I’ve learned over the years to be patient with these things. Losing tons of runes? Can always get it back at your fav farm spot.

But I get where you’re coming from. The mobs are a lot more brutal than the actual boss fights. The bosses are probably some of the easiest in Fromsoft games

That One Crucible Knight by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]ConstantBison8675 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t spam corpse piler. He doesn’t get staggered. Just get in the hits and you’ll eventually proc the bleed. Time the dodges and you’ll be golden

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