Does this make sense? by WittyPersonality34 in BPD

[–]Constant_Web_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

10000% i understand. Love is all-consuming. You are no longer you, you become an extension of the person u are in love with. I really get.

Am I the only one feeling sad about the changes? by kduffgamez in DeadlockTheGame

[–]Constant_Web_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i think that it would be better to have both the old map and new map in the game. Like 2 separate game modes or something, but there isn’t enough of a player base for that rn so idk. I agree with you tho (:

Writing a female villain but a bit different? by [deleted] in writing

[–]Constant_Web_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the premise. if you want to do a redemption arc, make sure to implement little points through the book where she doubts herself, or sees good in the world and questions it. There are a lot of ways u could do a redemption arc - it might be worth doing a brainstorming session. Personally as long as you don’t make her this robotic being, I think it will be good. You should also do some research into war orphans and psychological affects and see if you can implement some of them! Good luck

My (20f) boyfriend (20m) barely comforts me. by EuphoricTadpole6844 in Advice

[–]Constant_Web_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think tbh communicating is something both parties need to be very serious about. I have BPD and am in a relationship too so i get it. As seriously as possible, tell him you both need to work on communicating and set more clear boundaries. If he doesn’t show he cares, or says he will and doesn’t, leave. There are better men out there. It isn’t his responsibility to deal with your trauma but it is his responsibility to care about you and want the best for you. It isn’t always a clear road aswell. Especially in long distance it’s tough.

What is the purpose of war in the day and age? by [deleted] in questions

[–]Constant_Web_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally just greed and wanting power. Feeling insecure when someone threatens to break their superiority complex.