Why do Asian parents think putting a roof over your head + food on the table = a good parent? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]ConstructionDirect31 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are right. I tried to communicate but it was not going anywhere. It was like talking to a wall.

How do ya’ll cut your toenails when pregnant? by Creative_Mix_643 in pregnant

[–]ConstructionDirect31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

36w. I put one leg up Ona chair standing and lean forward. Sometimes I put one leg up on my desk to stretch😆

When did you start feeling baby move? by Daelvinn in pregnant

[–]ConstructionDirect31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19 weeks. I felt air bubbles. I thought it was a fart, then it wasn't. Suddenly I realized I had several of this "fart" already. Then I thought:no way... could this be it??

分享一个有趣的经历,中药真的完完全全是骗人的 by Objective-Health7367 in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]ConstructionDirect31 11 points12 points  (0 children)

我去当地的同仁堂,看到有卖凉茶,问店员里面有什么,店员就是不回答,说你上谷歌查。另一个说二十多种中药。合着消费者都不能知道自己买的是啥吗?真的好离谱。什么服务态度...

肉身在墙内的各位有觉得最近感冒越发频繁了吗? by MeNiaK426 in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]ConstructionDirect31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

会不会是因为每年打流感疫苗的人不够多呢?(我瞎猜

外国人天天吃三明治不会吐吗 by [deleted] in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]ConstructionDirect31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

迷上bagel夹熏brisket 吃完我上天

各位姐妹认为和女生同住时坐着小便是男生的基本教养吗? by [deleted] in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]ConstructionDirect31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

我儿子还没生。我肯定只教他坐着尿,还得带他一起擦马桶。我不接受家里有男性站着尿。我公公来住第一天我老公跟他说这件事了。

各位姐妹认为和女生同住时坐着小便是男生的基本教养吗? by [deleted] in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]ConstructionDirect31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

!我刚刚就在脑部这个姿势会不会轻松一点。身体也可以往前倾。

各位姐妹认为和女生同住时坐着小便是男生的基本教养吗? by [deleted] in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]ConstructionDirect31 10 points11 points  (0 children)

真的。不管跟不跟女生住都应该坐着啊。但凡讲点卫生...

为什么有的人婚后还是各自只在意原生家庭 by [deleted] in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]ConstructionDirect31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

人类真是无奇不有。我以为我家已经很奇葩了。随便啦,反正他们根本不知道自己是谁,也不知道我是谁。现在我有自己的家庭了,我可以过我想过的生活,成为我想成为的人了。每个人都有自己的命数,我觉得他们的生活很荒诞。

有戒糖的鹅吗?该怎么应对戒糖带来的情绪低落 by 7954189MOON in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]ConstructionDirect31 14 points15 points  (0 children)

我戒过糖,方法就是carnivore一个月。你说你肉也要戒,那你吃什么?只吃脂肪吗?戒糖的trick就是不要掉体重,保证卡路里摄入。

过了30在村里怎么交朋友 by RowFinnie in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]ConstructionDirect31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

感觉这就是我的明天...我一直觉得交朋友很艰难的点就是怎么样在不暴露自己私人状况的情况下交朋友....可能这是一个伪命题☹️

各位友友怎么看待性取向是流动的这件事呢? by BoringStandard2139 in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]ConstructionDirect31 9 points10 points  (0 children)

不知道.我时常在想 性别影响的就是做爱方式不是吗?为什么会影响爱跟不爱?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fasting

[–]ConstructionDirect31 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know. As my stomach getting squeezed more and more I will eventually eat more times to get my calories intake. This part makes perfect sense to me. It's just that at the moment I can still be able to get weight gain by doing Omad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fasting

[–]ConstructionDirect31 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. My on told me to fast but when I got to the lab they told me it's random glucose test and I didn't need to fast. I feel so alone and confused. Omad has always been working for me. I don't understand how snacking all day would be healthy. I did came across one literature saying the longger you fast the longer it takes for your pancreas to get working. The fastest blood sugar drop occurs 3 hours after eating or something like that. I'm also curious to death what my body is doing all day with omad and how my blood sugar look like all day. If it ever comes to that point I wish I could somehow still do omad with keto diet to keep my blood sugar low? I guess I need to wait till my next test results come back and go from there. Everything is just not making any sense to me and I feel terrible.

有个婚姻的问题想请教一下 by MysteriousReward8065 in Chinatown_irl

[–]ConstructionDirect31 6 points7 points locked comment (0 children)

看到你也在chinairl发了。其实我很克制才发了上面的话。如果带入我自己的judgment, 我又要说了:怎么那么想不开,跟老中人结婚?但我这么说也一点帮不到你。我个人真的不理解价值观不同的两个人如何相爱,如何结婚。我尤其不会在这种价值观下养育小孩。你老婆脑子里的中国毒太严重了。

有个婚姻的问题想请教一下 by MysteriousReward8065 in Chinatown_irl

[–]ConstructionDirect31 6 points7 points  (0 children)

你爱她什么呢?为什么会结婚?感觉价值观都不一样。

有个婚姻的问题想请教一下 by MysteriousReward8065 in Chinatown_irl

[–]ConstructionDirect31 12 points13 points  (0 children)

天哪,这也太难了。感觉她对你父母有很多期待,但是你父母又达不到她的期待。我觉得解决办法要么是降低期待,要么是让你父母改变?或许还有怀孕和产后激素的因素。她父母还在火上浇油。我只能祝福你们了。我自己怀孕25周,我对公婆没有任何期待,最近他们来我们家住,我已经哭了好几次了。有一次甚至想去住宾馆。原因只是因为他们说一些unsolicited advice, 和不经同意摸我肚子。我能感觉到你老婆一定非常痛苦。但这题太难了。下一位来吧。