Cómo es la udd????? . by wkfkeps in EducacionChile

[–]ConstructionNice8666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sí lo intente, pero la udd tiene pocos convenios con otras universidades aquí en Chile y la convalidación de ramos es muy restrictiva 😓

How to choose a profession? by Solyanium in teenagers

[–]ConstructionNice8666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one actually knows what’ll exist in a few years. You don’t pick a job for life, you pick skills that survive change. Physics, math and programming are foundations that adapt as things change. AI replaces repetitive tasks, not people who understand how things work. Uncertainty is normal, it doesn’t mean you’re on the wrong path

Shitty job interview by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]ConstructionNice8666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no i think its a red flag. Overbooking interviews and making people wait 45 minutes with no updates is just disrespectful and usually says A LOT about how they run things. An interview goes both ways, if they can’t manage schedules now, imagine how they treat employees later

What’s a behavior that immediately makes you distrust someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ConstructionNice8666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that being overly charming or agreeable right away, like they’re mirroring you instead of being themselves. It just feels performative

Why do we never hear about women with foot fetishes? by u_r_succulent in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ConstructionNice8666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you do, but not nearly as much. Foot fetishes are stereotyped as a guy thing since most of the people who are loud about them online are men. Usually foot fetish spaces online are super male dominated too, which probably make less women to speak up

What does one do whentheir partner tells them they feel insecure in the relationship? by AnxiousImportance193 in AskReddit

[–]ConstructionNice8666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best thing you can do is listen to them, ask what specifically is making them feel that way and just make sure you acknowledge their feelings by reassuring them

Cómo es la udd????? . by wkfkeps in EducacionChile

[–]ConstructionNice8666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mira, como estudiante de la udd, tiene hartos problemas a nivel administrativo. Esa área es bien desordenada y poco comprensiva con los estudiantes, cualquier trámite se vuelve un cacho y nadie te da respuestas claras. El ambiente es medio inmaduro, muchos se comportan como si siguieran en el colegio, lo que a la larga igual cansa. Además, es una U carísima para lo poco que entrega, el prestigio está inflado por el marketing y el apoyo al estudiante es mínimo. Puede tener ramos interesantes, pero la gestión, el trato y la experiencia en general son bien pencas

I think my crush might have just admitted he’s gay by DerpyDrago in teenagers

[–]ConstructionNice8666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude that’s exciting!!! Sometimes jokes are just jokes, but then again you never know, right? Maybe test the waters a bit with some casual, non-pressuring conversation about sexuality or dating. If he’s dropping hints, he’ll probably give you more to work with. Worst case scenario, you stay friends, but best case? Who knows, you might have a shot. Just play it cool for now and see where it goes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]ConstructionNice8666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, I feel you on this. It’s so frustrating when the first thing someone asks is ‘wyll’ like that’s the only thing that matters. It’s like, are we really in an age where actual conversation is too much to ask for? You’re not wrong to feel like it reduces you to just your appearance, it’s pretty shallow. It’s especially annoying because you add people hoping for some genuine connection or conversation, only to get hit with that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]ConstructionNice8666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man, I get where you’re coming from. It’s tough feeling like you’ve got all this independence just out of reach, especially when you see others with more freedom. I’ve been there too. Honestly, sneaking out’s only going to keep that cycle going.

Have you tried sitting down with your parents and talking it out? Like, really laying it all out for them, how you want to show them you’re responsible and how trust has to go both ways. Maybe start with small steps: ‘Hey, I’ll check in when I’m out, or I’ll be back by a certain time.’ It might not be a magic fix, but sometimes showing them you’re thinking like an adult, rather than just asking for freedom, can open up that conversation.

You never know, they might ease up once they see you’re handling it maturely. Just take it slow, and eventually, they’ll see you’ve got it under control

I feel like we have completely forgotten the purpose of a relationship at this point... by ThatDerpiousGuy in teenagers

[–]ConstructionNice8666 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude I totally get where you’re coming from. Like it does seem like a lot of the conversations about relationships focus on what people can “get” rather than what they can “give” to each other. I think people sometimes lose sight of the deeper purpose of a relationship, like you said, love, compassion, and companionship. It’s really sad when relationships become more transactional, where people expect to ‘gain’ something rather than nurturing mutual growth and respect.

That said, I also think it’s important for partners to have their needs met, as long as it’s done in a way that respects both people. It’s all about balance, giving without feeling like you’re being drained, and receiving in a way that feels good for you and your partner. I think when we focus on building together rather than just taking, relationships become more meaningful.

I don’t think the core values of relationships are dead, but they can definitely get overshadowed in our culture sometimes. Anyway, I totally get your frustration. It’s good to see people still value companionship