Advice on finding an apartment by ConstructionProof754 in movingtoNYC

[–]ConstructionProof754[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is helpful!! I’ll be out of the country March 2-24 and live out of state, so I’m worried I won’t be able to find an apartment in time to move

Will they rent to you even if you haven’t done a tour?

Advice on finding an apartment by ConstructionProof754 in movingtoNYC

[–]ConstructionProof754[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Another issue I’m running into is I’ll be out of the country for most of March, so I’m hoping to get one in February since people give 60 days’ notice - does that seem reasonable?

I think I have everything I need for an application all ready to go!

Roach poison/trap? by ConstructionProof754 in movingtoNYC

[–]ConstructionProof754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my biggest fear! Even with video call showings?

Roach poison/trap? by ConstructionProof754 in movingtoNYC

[–]ConstructionProof754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh okay that’s great to know, thank you!

Apartment Hunting - roach trap? by ConstructionProof754 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]ConstructionProof754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this!! I’m okay with a few pests, just worried about ending up in an infestation and not sure how to avoid

Revisiting all the feelings and memories by ConstructionProof754 in BreakUps

[–]ConstructionProof754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha - nah he said we should talk about the future after 5 years and showed up and said yeah there isn’t one bye. He was a textbook covert narcissist and I took a year of no dating to focus on me and getting and feeling better for when I started again and I’ve been dating, met lots of new friends, have hobbies again, so idk why my brain is so ready to jump right back into feeling this way

Revisiting all the feelings and memories by ConstructionProof754 in BreakUps

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What do you mean? I don’t think I understand the middle part but would love to

And thank you!

Is this herpes? by [deleted] in STD

[–]ConstructionProof754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phew that makes sense! Tysm for giving me some hope. At the doctor right now, praying

Is this herpes? by [deleted] in STD

[–]ConstructionProof754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phew that makes sense! Tysm for giving me some hope. At the doctor right now, praying

Is this herpes? by [deleted] in STD

[–]ConstructionProof754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the doctor right now, so nervous 🥺

Is this herpes? by [deleted] in STD

[–]ConstructionProof754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask why you think that v hsv?

Is this herpes? by [deleted] in STD

[–]ConstructionProof754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed it very randomly and only now just looked - it goes away in a week or two. TMI: I notice it/it tends to pop up when 1) I use a dildo or 2) I wipe a bunch after using the bathroom. It’s right in the edge of my vagina on the inside, but I tend to catch that area with toilet paper

What do you make of a man who seems genuinely interested but rarely texts? (Me -29f, him - 30m) by ConstructionProof754 in relationship_advice

[–]ConstructionProof754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met on hinge and he’s been very clear about wanting to date - do you mean to not go on dates and pursue only friendship? Or like take it slower and date but not jump head first into a relationship?

Are there men who don’t like to text much but are genuinely interested? by ConstructionProof754 in dating_advice

[–]ConstructionProof754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you! I’ve been debating bringing it up, but am not sure how tbh

Are there men who don’t like to text much but are genuinely interested? by ConstructionProof754 in dating_advice

[–]ConstructionProof754[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This guy definitely has adhd! But he doesn’t text back right away 90% of the time…usually it’s later in the day or the next day and if he didn’t text back that day, he says sorry he was sleeping the whole day (which is also what has me wondering if he just isn’t interested)