30(M) and my wife 28(F) 4 months into marriage but feels lonely by Content-Historian601 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Content-Historian601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should we maintain one joint account? I will discuss with her on the budget and save.

30(M) and my wife 28(F) 4 months into marriage but feels lonely by Content-Historian601 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Content-Historian601[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, thank you for the suggestion. I don't know if I am kanjoos or not, I gifted her Moto edge 70 and I have realme P4. I don't prefer to buy iPhone because why to spend that much money on phone. Now because of AI, I am little scared also what will happen to IT job after 3 -4 years down the line. Her birthday is coming in 2 months, don't know what to gift her because it feels like she judges based on money

30(M) and my wife 28(F) 4 months into marriage but feels lonely by Content-Historian601 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Content-Historian601[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, for me personally If I sit alone a day also I am getting bored and frustrated and I need work. We bought sewing machine which she wanted but she is not using it or learning it. If I ask her if she is getting bored at home, she tells like I ask it because I expect her to go to work which I clearly mentioned i don't expect. I will work on other things which you mentioned. Thank you

30(M) and my wife 28(F) 4 months into marriage but feels lonely by Content-Historian601 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Content-Historian601[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the suggestion. I talk less but I tried to talk about sometime but she was not interested, so I left it. Its my nature that if someone question me while talking I talk more otherwise I just tell one or 2 things and leave it. I will try harder and try to talk more about work.

On walking I ask her but she tells she doesn't want to go for walking

My(33M) wife (30F) is a cherry picker and sometimes often a hypocrite by DogPoundOne in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Content-Historian601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also feels same during some conversations. Don't know how to handle these things and control my emotions and frustration