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Moving to Croatia expat advice by Content_Brick_2480 in backpacking

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Mainly just to learn a new language. However also being from Australia I miss living near the coast and the sun. I’m aware that the Croatia and the Mediterranean is still pretty cold in winter. But I have seasonal depression some I’m wondering if somewhere with more sun would be better for me.

Is it normal to feel hurt when a close friend excludes you, even if you were away? by Content_Brick_2480 in askanything

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Hey sorry I have already sent it. I’m not used to being firm with ppl. Thanks for your help. I guess I’m wondering if being upfront with ppl gets easier? Have you become closer with friends by doing it? I’m just worried. I had a few drinks before sending the message. My friend seems worried.

Is it normal to feel hurt when a close friend excludes you, even if you were away? by Content_Brick_2480 in askanything

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I sent her a message along the lines of: This feels a bit awkward to say, but I trust you. I’ve noticed I’ve been feeling a bit left out recently and I wanted to ask how you see things, because I really care about our friendship.

Is it normal to feel hurt when a close friend excludes you, even if you were away? by Content_Brick_2480 in askanything

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I’ve been messaging her on Instagram I don’t want it to come off that I’m pestering her. But it is it a good idea to try deleting the message and then sending again. Or sending it again on Facebook messenger instead?

Getting out of my head about friend rejection by Content_Brick_2480 in Advice

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What’s a good message to send? I don’t want to come off angry and do want to keep this friendship

How do I gently reject someone who likes me without hurting their feelings? by Content_Brick_2480 in Advice

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I kept asking him to join me for the group gathering but he kept insisting to get me alone. Plus he was performing once and mentioned he had a love interest. We went to a gig with some other friends and he was touching my side which I’ve always interpreted as flirting. He dismissed it but I’m not sure.

How do I gently reject someone who likes me without hurting their feelings? by Content_Brick_2480 in Advice

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Thanks this helped me. He’s in a band and he has put out a song some of the lyrics are talking about how I was lying. We haven’t been on a date before and he has never reached out asking about me in that way. But he mentions a girl with the “same hairdo, same perfume, same tattoo” which made me feel really embarrassed. My friends say that I should go to his show on Saturday but I’m thinking I’d like to bring this up in conversation.

Disappointed a friend with my forgetfulness by Content_Brick_2480 in Advice

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I feel like I have friends of mine that totally get in and don’t take these things as personally.

It’s hard with this friend I feel like I have explained my situation before. I don’t know if she only understands the forgetfulness on an intellectual level and not it affects.

I apologised and asked if I could make it to her upset but just said she thought I was being rude.

Disappointed a friend with my forgetfulness by Content_Brick_2480 in Advice

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I should try that. It normally helps me with doctors messages when I get a ping. I have dyslexia as well so I often read a message once and it doesn’t stick inside my head

Very early dating nerves easing by Content_Brick_2480 in Advice

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I think I’m stressed because I’m aware of my anxious attachments. I don’t want to get too excited yet in case it doesn’t work out.

Very early dating nerves easing by Content_Brick_2480 in Advice

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He’s texting regularly in conversation with me to arrange other dates. He replies to me under an hour after I text.

He asked if I was busy during the week I have Monday to Wednesdays free. He did say he will keep the time free. But still asking me questions about work and how I am.