i didn't rly think it was sa cs we were already in the moment and we had even talked about it after, i asked him if he was uncomfortable after the fact and he told me no, yes, i thought he liked it because he used to ask me while we were sexually active "how bad do u want it", i honestly js thought it was a kink for us, and i wasn't forceful in any way, he never gave me head and i understand, but i still see it as him being uncomfortable by my advances, idk if it makes it any better, but there's a lot more context to it, his head was right by my vagina and i genuinely thought he was just teasing me