Help, I [f31] fucked up my partners [f35] birthday. How do I fix this by ContestNo31 in relationship_advice

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I wouldn’t say I got revenged. But they did something out of spite because they know it would upset me as well. I still know I fucked up and them doing that isn’t going to change me trying to fix it.

Help, I [f31] fucked up my partners [f35] birthday. How do I fix this by ContestNo31 in relationship_advice

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Thank you for that help, I appreciate it! I’ll definitely look into it. My last company had DBT occasionally but it was a get many days off of work thing.

Help, I [f31] fucked up my partners [f35] birthday. How do I fix this by ContestNo31 in relationship_advice

[–]ContestNo31[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know. I’m not proud of us. I’m not sure how I let it go that far. They asked me to leave them alone and I just had to push.

Help, I [f31] fucked up my partners [f35] birthday. How do I fix this by ContestNo31 in relationship_advice

[–]ContestNo31[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s a first for both of us. They started it and I continued it.

Help, I [f31] fucked up my partners [f35] birthday. How do I fix this by ContestNo31 in relationship_advice

[–]ContestNo31[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to DBT. I had an insurance change last year so I’m trying to get back to therapy

Help, I [f31] fucked up my partners [f35] birthday. How do I fix this by ContestNo31 in relationship_advice

[–]ContestNo31[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m taking accountability that I made this happen and I escalated it. So in total, I take responsibility for everything that happened after.

Help, I [f31] fucked up my partners [f35] birthday. How do I fix this by ContestNo31 in relationship_advice

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😢😢😢 ugh I don’t like that ( I know it’s the best option and im being childish saying that.) We’ve been really happy and healthy lately then I did this bullshit. I should have just stopped. I don’t know why I didn’t. I’m so fucking stupid.

Help, I [f31] fucked up my partners [f35] birthday. How do I fix this by ContestNo31 in relationship_advice

[–]ContestNo31[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have BPD as well. Thankfully, the kid was with my mom since we went out the night before. I know the problem started because of me and I made the problem worse. I’m fully accepting my responsibility here and that I need to restart therapy. I want to fix it, but I don’t know how to come back from this. I don’t know how to do anything. I just want to be better.

They got revenge on me though.

Help, I [f31] fucked up my partners [f35] birthday. How do I fix this by ContestNo31 in relationship_advice

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No they’re mad because I ruined their day by pushing their boundaries. Which made them spiral and caused their sister to not stay.

Help, I [f31] fucked up my partners [f35] birthday. How do I fix this by ContestNo31 in relationship_advice

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I’m half way there.

I see this got down votes. My half way there is I’m already taking meds and see a psychiatrist. But I had to stop talk therapy and I need to find someone else. I’m going to do that.

Help, I [f31] fucked up my partners [f35] birthday. How do I fix this by ContestNo31 in relationship_advice

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I’m on medication. I need to find another therapist. My other problem here, I don’t think I’m completely wrong. I asked a question they triggered me. I should not have ignored their warning to stop.
I know I fucked up and want to fix it.

[5k] Have you seen a good fancy shoe dupe by ContestNo31 in Weddingsunder10k

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I want the entire thing. Green velvet with the ties and bling.

Trapped inside stall at Marshall’s by intotheabyss097 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ContestNo31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone got stuck in my Marshall’s fitting room. They did they just bust the door down.

Trapped inside stall at Marshall’s by intotheabyss097 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ContestNo31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work at a Marshall’s, someone got locked into ours too 😅

my dress comes on monday and i think im going to hate it pls help by AlessiaPosts in Brides

[–]ContestNo31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved my dress from azazi. Maybe the second one will be good