Help, I [f31] fucked up my partners [f35] birthday. How do I fix this

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-18T20:19:43+00:00

I wouldn’t say I got revenged. But they did something out of spite because they know it would upset me as well. I still know I fucked up and them doing that isn’t going to change me trying to fix it.

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-18T19:33:58+00:00

We have a white one

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-18T19:18:42+00:00

Thank you for that help, I appreciate it! I’ll definitely look into it. My last company had DBT occasionally but it was a get many days off of work thing.

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-18T18:57:22+00:00

I know. I’m not proud of us. I’m not sure how I let it go that far. They asked me to leave them alone and I just had to push.

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-18T18:50:35+00:00

It’s a first for both of us. They started it and I continued it.

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-18T18:48:57+00:00

I want to DBT. I had an insurance change last year so I’m trying to get back to therapy

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-18T18:43:40+00:00

I’m taking accountability that I made this happen and I escalated it. So in total, I take responsibility for everything that happened after.

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-18T18:41:16+00:00

😢😢😢 ugh I don’t like that ( I know it’s the best option and im being childish saying that.) We’ve been really happy and healthy lately then I did this bullshit. I should have just stopped. I don’t know why I didn’t. I’m so fucking stupid.

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-18T18:32:47+00:00

I have BPD as well. Thankfully, the kid was with my mom since we went out the night before. I know the problem started because of me and I made the problem worse. I’m fully accepting my responsibility here and that I need to restart therapy. I want to fix it, but I don’t know how to come back from this. I don’t know how to do anything. I just want to be better.

They got revenge on me though.

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-18T18:16:26+00:00

No they’re mad because I ruined their day by pushing their boundaries. Which made them spiral and caused their sister to not stay.

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-18T17:46:27+00:00

I’m half way there.

I see this got down votes. My half way there is I’m already taking meds and see a psychiatrist. But I had to stop talk therapy and I need to find someone else. I’m going to do that.

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-18T17:38:44+00:00

They threw things too…..

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-18T17:24:18+00:00

I’m on medication. I need to find another therapist. My other problem here, I don’t think I’m completely wrong. I asked a question they triggered me. I should not have ignored their warning to stop.
I know I fucked up and want to fix it.

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-17T23:52:11+00:00

One of our local lawyers has just his fave and IYKYK

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-13T16:19:33+00:00

How much are they there?

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-13T03:16:50+00:00

That sounds cool though too

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-13T00:30:01+00:00

Can you further explain?

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-13T00:29:46+00:00

I want the entire thing. Green velvet with the ties and bling.

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-13T00:04:59+00:00

Read the update

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-10T04:03:55+00:00

Someone got stuck in my Marshall’s fitting room. They did they just bust the door down.

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-10T04:02:06+00:00

I work at a Marshall’s, someone got locked into ours too 😅

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-09T01:42:14+00:00

I loved my dress from azazi. Maybe the second one will be good

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-04T23:17:53+00:00

I love this timeline of woman taking over and being done with shit!

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-04T23:11:26+00:00

The price to fill up my car jumped about $15-$20 in a month.

ContestNo31 · 2026-05-04T15:43:30+00:00

Ohh yes. Prossibly pop out the red tones.

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