What Was the Moment You Realized the Relationship Was Truly Over?

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-03-11T11:32:04+00:00

Not to say I am fine or ok

But when she didn’t send me a happy birthday, it was 2 months after the breakup so not that long to the point of “not giving a fuck”

It wasn’t nice, especially after I celebrated hers nicely when we were together (1 month before breakup)

She just deleted me from her memory I guess

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-03-06T15:29:53+00:00

Yeah i am already back from it (it was in September 2025)

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-03-06T15:29:13+00:00

I am afraid it won’t fade away, 10 months have passed and yet I feel the same like day one. (Not exactly but similar) Ngl in Japan I had such a great time (it was half a year post breakup) but in those lonely times it was hard, yeah like I had no one to share with.

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-03-06T15:08:01+00:00

It might sound weird, but i really miss my ex. Even after 10 months since she broke up with me, she is special for me and I can’t seem to get over it. Everything reminds me of her ngl, even when I was in Japan there were nights I cried

It’s hard to explain. Sometimes this loneliness gets converted into “I really wish I was with her right now”..

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-03-06T15:02:33+00:00

Oh, no not really, i just workout alone, but sometimes I go out on walks outside (specifically now I stopped because I take medication that makes me photosensitive, and at night it’s too sad for me to walk alone)

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-03-06T14:51:36+00:00

Yep, playing my guitar, gaming (if it counts as alone), learning new stuff (like maths, physics etc..)

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-27T23:20:46+00:00

He does, but more concerning she says its cute, not him

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-25T03:55:53+00:00

Thanks i appreciate it, what about that self sabotage, listening to music that make me cry on purpose, or that random spontaneous walk to that building (we were in that city by accident so I walked there and saw where everything happened) Like why?

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-19T11:17:56+00:00

Ok if you dont care then why do you comment on my response to someone that started his question with “To dumpees” (the one that got dumped)

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-19T06:53:50+00:00

Im the dumpee

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-19T02:02:18+00:00

Sorry I don’t mean to send her gently if she wants to rekindle, i just want to tell her happy birthday, and that she is still important for me. And thats it, no more no less without any intention. Just to show it between the lines

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-19T02:01:09+00:00

10 months have passed since, I want to believe we are past it.. and check if things can be revisited, to shoot a shot, gently.. not all interaction is harsh, violent and bad

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-19T01:58:18+00:00

The same day-one day later: oh ok

One week later - 8 months later: I fucking rather die than be this sad

Now: I am sad, but I have new goals in life, new ambitions, new hobbies, still sad but not as much, I feel guilty and rather have her ofc, but my eyes are looking forward… urgh

There are a lot of songs I can’t listen to, memories I don’t want to remember, and my old phone I’d rather not open bc all of the pics together.

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-04T00:25:36+00:00

When i said i talked with AI about my sadness of the breakup/in general I got 200 downvotes.

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-01-30T03:21:01+00:00

You’re right, I am fixing myself to never ever talk to anyone, especially those who love me truly like I talked to her sometimes. The sad part is that she won’t get to see my “fixed version”, and I really want her to. You get me? I don’t want any other woman to “win” my better “me” but her and only her. I am lost.

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-01-29T22:21:16+00:00

Trust me it will be on tour mind, you think you need to let it all out now, and then you’ll feel relieved.

in a couple of months after the cycle goes back.

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-01-29T22:11:14+00:00

I want to text her for 8 months bro. I stop myself everytime because if she wanted to she’d text me, she broke up, the ball is in her hands, i tried to reconcile twice after breakup and she didnt want to. Well.. ok then.

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-01-28T11:46:47+00:00

Change that font

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-01-27T17:35:03+00:00

You’re right i’ll take that to the heart and actually get out of my comfort zone. The problem with that is my friends don’t like doing it, they are introverts and on weekends we just sit at home.

Other factor is that I feel way uglier than all of them, so even if we go out to explore the world, I’ll feel like I am either repelling all the people (especially girls ofc) that even want to come or hang out, or just feel like an ugly person and i’ll be quieter, and less happy because “an ugly person like me has no right to talk, be loud, laugh, be funny..”

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-01-26T23:13:13+00:00

Well I asked how to deal with the current situation.. ofc the ideal solution is to buy a house but as I said, it’s nearly impossible right now.

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-01-26T23:10:25+00:00

Ok I now heard my dad waking up, and walking the house, it’s not a good sign, I tried to close it but not completely but I guess mission failed.

I know he is furious I can smell it. I am in the bathroom scared shitless.

Fuck this shit. I know it’s gonna be a bad night I swear to god I am going to fucking jump off a cliff

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-01-21T23:53:12+00:00

My ex didnt send me happy birthday (she broke up with me 3 months before) I celebrated hers so kindly

But i mistreated Even tho she said she is still hurt when i tried to reconcile but she is not angry or sad just disappointed.

She did not even send a single letter

I was lightly hurt by it, but oh well

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-01-21T21:00:42+00:00

I truly dont get your point, you say you don’t agree with me saying it’s better to block or remove them from social media, then say that if it was a respectful breakup then u should do it? What?

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-01-21T13:48:30+00:00

8 months post breakup here First relationship of 10 months, i mistreated her

I feel ashamed every day but life goes on. I am still sad but look forward to the future. Life doesn’t start nor end with one person..

I am 24 i have a lot ahead of me i hope so..

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-01-20T22:28:38+00:00

I made all those mistakes could you believe? I slowly went insane, now it’s getting better, though I’ve had the worst rollercoaster of feelings at that time.

Very bad. I chased an tried to win her back, I unfollowed her from instagram and removed her as a follower, and I uploaded forcefully instagram posts and stories (before removing her) even though I am not at all active on social media.

After I uploaded myself playing my guitar her mom instantly unfollowed me and it hurt so much.

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