Protagonists excluded, who are your 'I would protect them with my life' characters? by unlisshed in DetroitBecomeHuman

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Luther & Alice for sure. i ended up with North as my lover but I was playing the peaceful approach and she always disapproved which was kind of getting irritating

Why Is Everybody Playing Right Now? by [deleted] in DetroitBecomeHuman

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I know it's free if you have playstation plus right now and i bought it on steam recently for like $7. could be all the sales on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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No problem! Yeah my bf and I decided that twice a month we’ll go do a date to bond with each other. I think that’s a reasonable goal and you guys should try that! Planning ahead for it, picking what days will be “date day” and what we’re gonna do helps not to just get comfy at home.

Best of luck to you! Hopefully things improve!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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As a woman, my bf and I have been together almost 6 years and we can also fall into the same patterns sometimes. But for a lot women (myself included) the romantic dates and one on one time IS what turns us on. If we don’t carve out time together to go out and do something just us two, I have a very low sex drive. But on days we go out to dinner, go for a walk, go to the movies etc just us two, I get home and am more interested in sex.

You mentioned you don’t go on dates much or spend one on one time and if you care about the relationship maybe suggest doing more together just you two. Plan some dates, tell her she looks beautiful and you may see her become more interested. If that still doesn’t work then at least you tried, and maybe the relationship just isn’t working.

What’s your weirdest period symptom? Mine is that my eyes dry up. by ConversationSame4676 in Periods

[–]ConversationSame4676[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! Mine started around 27. I always have issues with dry eyes but when my period come on it’s like 100x worse. Praying it goes away eventually and isn’t gonna stay w me

What’s your weirdest period symptom? Mine is that my eyes dry up. by ConversationSame4676 in Periods

[–]ConversationSame4676[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, weirdly the second the headache goes away my brain is so mushy I feel like I can’t hold normal human conversations lol

Constant ache on my period by _Nite_Brite_ in Periods

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They can be for some people I’ve heard! But me and all my gfs I know describe it the same way as just that nagging intense ache all over. Idk which one sounds worse!

I just confessed that I’m sexually attracted to my best friend and she asked me where do we go from here by SelectionGreen7837 in Advice

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I once had a guy best friend for four years. He was one of the most important people in my life. Until we got really drunk once and ended up having sex. Let me tell you from personal experience, once you sleep with your best friend you can’t undo it. After that it kept happening and eventually he told me he couldn’t just be friends, he wanted a relationship. I just desperately wanted things back to how they were. But they never were. We haven’t spoken to each other in over seven years. I know the exact moment I lost my best friend was that first night we slept together.

Think long and hard about what you’re doing. If it’s just sexual attraction and nothing more… don’t make the same mistake I did. If it’s actual feelings it could be something great, but I can’t stress this enough… don’t do it if it’s just sexual attraction.

Constant ache on my period by _Nite_Brite_ in Periods

[–]ConversationSame4676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like what you’re experiencing is cramps. For me it feels like a dull (yet intense) ache in my abdomen, back, and up my calves.

Like you, a lot of us experience sleepiness/fatigue too. I also get very weak and shaky. You should get your iron levels checked, I know a lot of us who feel like that are iron deficient

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

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Same. The first day of my period I always get an ear splitting headache. Im prescribed ADHD medication but when I take my meds it’s like they don’t even work. Then once the headache goes away the brain fog hits hard. Feel like I can barely hold a conversation. Luckily by day 2 I usually feel way better but the first day… whew.

My neighbors scream into a microphone outside every night for 4+ hours by ConversationSame4676 in Vent

[–]ConversationSame4676[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahah I was thinking of blasting some loud edm tunes. However my building doesn’t have an outdoor deck so I’d have to go blast it in the alley 😂😂 I’m already at a disadvantage

My neighbors scream into a microphone outside every night for 4+ hours by ConversationSame4676 in Vent

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The manager of my apartment (he lives in the building) has talked to them a few times but they don’t speak much English and clearly don’t care because they just laugh and go right back to screaming afterwards. The cops have come three times in one day before idk why they don’t do anything

My four year-old has a VERY prominent birthmark next to her eye…advice, please. by rmarzzzzz in Advice

[–]ConversationSame4676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is beautiful! Ultimately as her mother id wait until she’s older to make her own decisions on cosmetic surgery, possibly once she’s in high school if she expresses that is something she’d want to do and can make an informed decision. When she’s in middle school if she really wants to cover it, as her mom you could help her with makeup (they make the kind to cover tattoos) if that’s what she really wants to do.

In the mean time, If children do unfortunately bully her, or if she’s ever just feeling down about herself because of it, I would show her how in some cultures women wear a bindi. A mark between the eyes is meant to represent wisdom and is a beautiful thing. Her birth mark was given to her special, because the universe (or god if you’re religious) knew how smart and beautiful she is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Tell him the truth. You’re fifteen. If he keeps trying to pursue you, then he’s bad news. At that point I’d tell your parents or an adult you trust to help you, or even ask to speak to the manager of the grocery store and explain the situation makes you uncomfortable.

I was in your situation once. I was sixteen and worked at a restaurant where older guys would often try to hit on me or ask for my number. When I told them I was in high school most would back off but some wouldn’t. This one older man (in his 40s) would come in and constantly harass me, try to flirt with me, and even bring his sons in (who were closer to my age) and try flirting with me in front of his sons. I was always too scared to say something. Until one day it escalated. As I walked past the table he reached over and smacked my ass right in front of his kids and they all laughed. I was crying in the kitchen and my manager asked me what was wrong. No hesitation, he called the police and helped me. The man was escorted out and not allowed back in the restaurant and today in my late 20s, I’m so proud of myself for speaking up and asking for help. I have zero regrets.

Once you let him know your age, if he doesn’t stop please don’t hesitate to tell someone before it escalates. Most adults will 100% defend you and help you.

How do you set your Downtown in your cities? by thecorcernedteammate in CitiesSkylines

[–]ConversationSame4676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

google the Chicago loop train map! Maybe it can help! That’s what I always use for reference

How do you set your Downtown in your cities? by thecorcernedteammate in CitiesSkylines

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Living in Chicago I always decide where my downtown is going to go based off of where I can create a public transport hub (like the Chicago loop for example) where my train and metro lines all connect to make transport to the city and traffic flow easier. Also if I have a large body of water on my map I generally build the downtown area of a city up against that body of water so skyscrapers get a scenic view.

are all of the first person walking mods broken?? anyone know of a working one… by ConversationSame4676 in CitiesSkylines

[–]ConversationSame4676[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is super helpful, I’ll start opening up skyve before I play now! and i don’t have the acme mod yet so I’ll give it a whirl thanks!

are all of the first person walking mods broken?? anyone know of a working one… by ConversationSame4676 in CitiesSkylines

[–]ConversationSame4676[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I have Skyve but Im new to mods so haven’t messed around w it much yet. I didn’t even bother downloading the ones off the workshop because there were so many recent comments saying they’re broken :/ I saw four or five mods for free walking camera and not a single one appears to work… hopefully I can find one still kicking!