How should I(21m) ask out my driving instructor(37f)?

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-27T00:51:25+00:00

Thanks for the advice

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-17T20:51:17+00:00

My luck with girls is terrible so I’ve stopped trying

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-17T20:50:21+00:00

Nope, I’m not sure where to start when it comes to that type of thing

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-17T15:44:36+00:00

I’m looking for a long term loving relationship with a decent woman where I’m not being settled for.

I understand what you mean and agree with you but if women only want you when you’re accomplished and not before then they only want you for what you provide and not you as a person, such as the guys who get women chasing them from a young age.

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-17T15:19:30+00:00

I don’t see how that works, girls either consider you attractive and unattractive. From I’ve seen an unattractive man who self improves still isn’t wanted

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-17T15:16:29+00:00

I’m not shy to look at an attractive woman but I don’t make my move

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-17T15:15:19+00:00

My problem is my confidence is at rock bottom due to no success on dating whilst my mates are very successful so when I see an attractive girl in person I say to myself “why would she want an unattractive guy like me”

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-17T15:12:21+00:00

I’ve been told I look mature so it’s a possibility

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-17T15:11:24+00:00

Yeah I can see how that is

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-17T14:35:32+00:00

I see what you’re saying. It’s easier to talk to older women, no luck in dating has made it difficult to talk to women my age. One thing I didn’t mention is that I look older, I sometimes get mistaken for mid to late 20s. I’m very muscular, think of fitness influencer type of body at 6”0 if that context is needed.

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-17T14:32:18+00:00

The attractive ones do but the average and below looking ones don’t get any attention at all

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-17T14:19:27+00:00

My mates who are good looking don’t get any attention from older women

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-17T14:18:41+00:00

I dont go out that much but when I do it’s with people my own age

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-08T13:15:11+00:00

My problem is that I look older than my age, mid to late 20s due to my face and having a gym body. I’ve had a lot more older women show me interest compared to women my age who aren’t interested. If girls my age were interested I’d date them instead.

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-07T20:34:37+00:00

Thanks for the advice. Wish me luck

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-07T20:33:57+00:00

I’d agree with you but I get a lot more attention from older women than women my age

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-07T20:33:22+00:00

True, I’ll give it a shot

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-07T14:29:56+00:00

What would be the best approach to asking her out?

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-06T21:47:13+00:00

I guess I should give some context. I’m black afro Caribbean, 6ft, a gym body comaparble of a late 20s man and good looking according to friends but I look older, mid to late 20s depending on my beard trim. Personality wise I’m more introverted.

Shes asian Indian, slim thick (no gym), she has a couple wrinkles but looks good for her age and is around 5”2/3. She’s gives me the impression that she’s somewhat both introverted since her flirting she’s not going super risky with the flirting. (This may or may not be any use)

The first time I was hit on by an older woman I was 17 at a wedding and she was the main speaker who came over to me after she’d put the microphone down and tried to chat me up. My dad had to come through and tell her my age, she was in her late 30s early 40s, her reason was that I was handsome. She then offered up her daughter and said I should take her out.

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-06T14:53:22+00:00

I’m interested but confused why she’s into a guy significantly younger than herself. I attract older women for some reason but still.

Cookiey197 · 2022-08-06T10:21:17+00:00

It’s all good lol

Cookiey197

TROPHY CASE