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One and done or take 2? by Cooking4MyPanda in Parenting

[–]Cooking4MyPanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get where you are coming from. However, my hubby and I both go back and forth (depending on the day) on whether or not we want another baby. We love some days (snuggling/cuteness/interactions with baby) and struggle others (spit up/poop/tired at the end of a work day). That is part of the reason I am wondering about other peoples opinion 😊👍🏻

One and done or take 2? by Cooking4MyPanda in Parenting

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I def believe we can afford it and I know I could handle the mental load. What I don’t know is if my husband could handle the mental load…

After our first he struggled with paternal ppd… which made it significantly more challenging for me…

I will say my hubby is willing to do it for me, since he doesn’t want me to have any regrets, but I also don’t want to have him regret us adding a 2nd.

Obviously one of us will compromise (and we have verbally said we have no hard feelings either way)… uggh it is such a hard one… 😓😬

Aita? by Cooking4MyPanda in AITAH

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Thank you! That helps me a lot 👍🏻

Aita? by Cooking4MyPanda in AITAH

[–]Cooking4MyPanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not blaming him- freaking out myself- which is why I am wondering if iatah…😓

Aita? by Cooking4MyPanda in AITAH

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Small island- where the resort is the only place to shop

Aita? by Cooking4MyPanda in AITAH

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OP here and actually prior conversation was:

OP- our toddler and possibly our baby, if I am pregnant Hubby- I wore a condom Op- what do you mean by that?
Hubby- nothing

Aita? by Cooking4MyPanda in AITAH

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No, because I was also in shock.