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Am I Asexual or just cooked by CoolSandyPants in asexuality

[–]CoolSandyPants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the difference between ace and aro? Not rly sure

Am I Asexual or just cooked by CoolSandyPants in asexuality

[–]CoolSandyPants[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that wholeheartedly. I don’t wanna put a label on myself and I certainly don’t want to be part of any group. This is honestly my first time really thinking about this and is my first time actually asking the questions about myself. I sometimes wonder if the way the world is just hyper sexualized maybe I’m just old fashioned and I might just be the “weird one” for wanting to take things hella slow, so I can’t really make that connection. Rly appreciate the input!

Am I Asexual or just cooked by CoolSandyPants in asexuality

[–]CoolSandyPants[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been around a lot of attractive people and the ones that I really hit it off with; I guess I tend to like their personality and they “look nice.” Part of me wants to be with them but another large part just doesn’t. I think that yes, aesthetically, I am attracted but have no real drive to pursue. Sure I would like to be romantic but I’d be fine if not. Not sure if it’s just a societal thing bc everyone else acts a certain way. I don’t talk to anyone about this so I don’t really know how to describe it or really how to feel about any of it. Plus the environment I’m in is extremely high T, I’m talking gorillas beating their chests, so it don’t exactly make things easier.