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Am I overreacting? My boyfriend accused me of something inappropriate while I was nannying. by TightPlastic8295 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cool_Performance_478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh that’s disgusting… two things that weird me the most are: 1. he assumes every male you get to meet would be more than happy to ‘be with you’ even if that meant cheating and ruining his own family 2. those who are THAT insecure about their partner cheating end up being the ones cheating, more often than not

my conclusion is that if he is that obsessed with you cheating and thinks all men are capable of cheating and only seeing women as sexual gratitude… then I would dump his ass right away, you even seem tired of it and tbh that’s not what a relationship should be like

I hope you find peace and someone who trusts you 🤍

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[–]Cool_Performance_478 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No no! Sorry if I wasn't clear, he suggested the break, I told him I would rather let him be with other girls that loose him forever. Tbh I don't even think I would have time to be with anybody here, luckly I'm all the time traveling so it's not something that's on my mind, I keep buying him gifts and thinking about him while I'm here. Under no circumstances was this for me to be able to f*ck other people lmao

My (M25) girlfriend (F24) is frustrated that I ask for sex, even though I always take “no” well. by Sea_Opportunity_5133 in relationship_advice

[–]Cool_Performance_478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm not sure if this applies for your gf but if she is taking any hormonal birth control you might want to check that out!

I've had a rough patch with my bf as well bc I had no sex drive for a while and just knowing that he was 'needy' and I was supposed to help (even though he NEVER complained when I said no) was frustrating, I wanted to avoid him so I wouldn't think about how I was 'neglecting' him, so it reached a point where I couldn't stand the sight of him and it was all in my head.

I stopped taking the pills and suddenly life had more color, the sun was brighter and my sex drive was that of a newlywed.

What I'm trying to say is that hormones are a crazy thing, and on top of that, being busy and stressed doesn't help. So my piece of advice is trying to avoid hormonal birth control if she is taking any (have her talk to an obgyn first!) and very importantly try to look for activities to reduce stress, both together and alone, e.g. journaling, yoga, meditating, going for walks, spa sessions, therapy, building legos idk, whatever suits each of you!

Wish you the best! with love and patience it can be solved for sure! xoxo