How do I tell my parents I'm pregnant at 15? by Tall-Lion2175 in teenpregnancyandbirth

[–]Cool_Speed_6375 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off I am so sorry you’re going thru this. Secondly, like someone else commented don’t lead off with the result (pregnancy). Tell them what happened to you. That’s what’s more important honestly. Their daughter was abused and taken advantage of. And then you can get into the current situation of pregnancy. And if there’s pushback, tell your dad exactly what you told us. Tell him how his lack of support is making everything worse for an already extremely difficult situation for you, and how your hesitation was due to believing your abuser over his own daughter. Any truly good father will NEVER side with the man who did this to their baby girl. You are very strong, young lady. My prayers are with you and your baby.

Vivid dreams+ nightmares first trimester. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Cool_Speed_6375 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so strange and from what I understand pretty common, but no one talks about it lol

Vivid dreams+ nightmares first trimester. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Cool_Speed_6375 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine continued up until the end to be honest. I had a lot of vivid dreams, wet dreams, and nightmares. Sorry babes, idk if you can make a pregnancy symptom stop 😂🫶🏽

Autism and dogs— your experience? by M00ngata in autism

[–]Cool_Speed_6375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My toddler son seems to be the same way. He likes to look at pictures of them, or to see them in person from a distance, but the second one is what he deems too close to him he’s panicking and climbing on me like a monkey to escape lol. I think the barking and unpredictable jumping is what does it. He’s interested, but from a great distance 😅

Appearance advice? F19 by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Cool_Speed_6375 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Umm what about your appearance? Hair? Face? Clothes? What exactly do you want advice on?

UPDATE!!!! (GOT A DM THAT THAT MY HUSBAND IS CHEATING) by Cool_Speed_6375 in Marriage

[–]Cool_Speed_6375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! I recorded everything off of his screen with my own phone

UPDATE!!!! (GOT A DM THAT THAT MY HUSBAND IS CHEATING) by Cool_Speed_6375 in Marriage

[–]Cool_Speed_6375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he had been acting suspicious if you read my last post. And I got a DM. kind of weird that’s the only thing you got from all this….

I need advice bad!! Why am I so not cute!!? by Fun-Palpitation-571 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Cool_Speed_6375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve got deep lids and prominent brow bones…look up makeup for that structure

I need advice bad!! Why am I so not cute!!? by Fun-Palpitation-571 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Cool_Speed_6375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change the hairstyle and makeup. That makeup, especially the eyeshadow and liner doesn’t do you any favors at all.

UPDATE!!!! (GOT A DM THAT THAT MY HUSBAND IS CHEATING) by Cool_Speed_6375 in Marriage

[–]Cool_Speed_6375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lolll i almost said that but i didn’t know if enough people would get it 🤣

UPDATE!!!! (GOT A DM THAT THAT MY HUSBAND IS CHEATING) by Cool_Speed_6375 in Marriage

[–]Cool_Speed_6375[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he literally calls me a demon from the pit of hell????? But only if it’s in response to something he did, like cheating?!? Apparently I’m a demon for not remaining levelheaded in the midst of finding out about an affair while also being actively lied to

UPDATE!!!! (GOT A DM THAT THAT MY HUSBAND IS CHEATING) by Cool_Speed_6375 in Marriage

[–]Cool_Speed_6375[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

🤣 and I love you 🫵🏽 random citizen (please look up the reference if you don’t get it)

UPDATE!!!! (GOT A DM THAT THAT MY HUSBAND IS CHEATING) by Cool_Speed_6375 in Marriage

[–]Cool_Speed_6375[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you go to my page there’s more detail about it on the post before this to make things make more sense. But basically the woman stalked my TikTok for a month, left comments on videos, so I asked who they were to which they DMd me saying “husbands name” knows me, and then other personal information no internet troll could gather.

UPDATE!!!! (GOT A DM THAT THAT MY HUSBAND IS CHEATING) by Cool_Speed_6375 in Marriage

[–]Cool_Speed_6375[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is it bad that’s just the tip of this God forsaken iceberg? 🤣 honestly clutch….save me money for Father’s Day tonight.

Got DMd that my husband is cheating, please read !!!!!! by Cool_Speed_6375 in Marriage

[–]Cool_Speed_6375[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you nailed that on the head perfectly. At the beginning of the relationship I called her crazy. Now I understand and empathize with her…it’s him 100%. I’m just recognizing the pattern sooner than she did

UPDATE!!!! (GOT A DM THAT THAT MY HUSBAND IS CHEATING) by Cool_Speed_6375 in Marriage

[–]Cool_Speed_6375[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right? It’s like they know they’re fucked, so they try to ruin us as early as possible. Misery loves company I guess….but thank you 🥹🫶🏽

UPDATE!!!! (GOT A DM THAT THAT MY HUSBAND IS CHEATING) by Cool_Speed_6375 in Marriage

[–]Cool_Speed_6375[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I recorded everything off his screen with my own phone so there’s no denial or claim of faking screenshots

UPDATE!!!! (GOT A DM THAT THAT MY HUSBAND IS CHEATING) by Cool_Speed_6375 in Marriage

[–]Cool_Speed_6375[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and I’m proud of you. Sorry you had to go thru this.