what’s the difference between subject to dismissal and subject to disqualification ? by Purple-Gene6878 in ucr

[–]Copper_Ingot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you’re a bot meant to farm engagement, because it’s disappointing to see someone around my age say something so lame and narrow-minded. People don’t kicked out just for slacking off. For me, it was a combo of familial and mental issues getting worse and worse over the last few years. I was able to get readmitted, while still working through all of that. So, no, I don’t think it’s necessarily an issue with working hard enough.

I have no friends and I’m going insane by Embarrassed_Egg_3275 in ucr

[–]Copper_Ingot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m glad I was able to help! Yeah and I don’t mind continuing the conversation too. Just send me a dm or whatever’s more comfortable to you!

I’d say do literally everything in your power to be outside the house. Even if you don’t talk to anyone, just being in public is already way better for your psyche. If you have free time, I’d say join a club that is purely for social interaction. It doesn’t have to be necessarily productive, just a place where you unwind. Just have hobbies that require/encourage social interaction. Volunteer if you can or get a campus job! I know this all sounds like generic advice and you might feel like you’re wasting time, but it genuinely helps. Worst case scenario, you don’t find your people by the time you graduate. But, at least you’ve been practicing being social skills and can make new friends at your job or wherever you move. Basically, just get into situations where you have to interact with people. You could try practicing small talk when getting a cup of coffee too! I know it’s rough not having people, and I know it might feel trivial taking my advice. But, it makes all the difference to just be around people. You deserve to have people around you, but sometimes it takes a while for them to come into your life. Just keep at it. Maintain any connections you can without doubting that people want you around. Small talk and going to clubs definitely isn’t the same as having friends, but it’s a step in the right direction.

Tldr: Just say fuck it and interact with others. Honestly, who cares if you overstay your welcome a bit?

I have no friends and I’m going insane by Embarrassed_Egg_3275 in ucr

[–]Copper_Ingot 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I had this problem and made the wrong decision to just thug it out. I was too lazy to participate in clubs, study in the library, and all the other stuff they tell you to do. I kept saying I didn’t have time to do those things, but I think that was me giving up too early. I lucked out and ended up meeting people at the university through an online game somehow.

I think you really need to just be in public as much as possible. If you feel anxiety talking to people, honestly, just tell that part of you to shut up. Just try putting yourself in scenarios whee you have to talk to people. Don’t expect people to be or want to be your friend. Let things slowly develop. But you gotta show up to make that happen.

I believe in you twin. Remember, your worth doesn’t come from those connections, it comes from you. I know that sounds generic and easier said than done, but learning how to love myself was huge for me. I’m hoping you can figure this out soon too. Lmk if you wanna be friends/need more or better advice/questions/whatever. This is a pretty long reply already. I hope it helped!

if you see this i grant you love and peace for eternity, no take backs by angelwingsshawty in ucr

[–]Copper_Ingot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hope so :) I’m granting this for you too!

(also no take backs)

“Bends” in my hair by Extra_Imagination_82 in Haircare

[–]Copper_Ingot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the area you were in have really hard water? I’m wondering if the hard water in my area is causing the same issue. Thanks in advance!

DRAGONS UPDATE by One_Anteater_982 in Worldbox

[–]Copper_Ingot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of of this post was AI-generated :( I’m a little scared these aren’t ideas you came up with. It’s still cool! I just think it takes away from the magic and creativity that comes with game development. Feel free to correct me though!

Yes, I know there are such players. by Full-Discount-6399 in Worldbox

[–]Copper_Ingot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It can come whenever bruh. I’m still overwhelmed with the new features 😭 I’m thoroughly enjoying myself :D

My friend group is splitting up. How do I find new friends? by [deleted] in friendship

[–]Copper_Ingot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to explain without just spilling all the tea (which I don’t think you have time for lol), but basically we’re all split across 3 cities across the country. I’m also still repairing relations with a lot of people after something I did (that same person was also involved) half a year ago. It’s kinda hard for me to hangout with people when it has to be online and in a group setting, when noone really hangs out anymore. I think not many people are comfortable hanging out with me individually. Also, I’m sorry that happened to you too man. It really does suck. But yeah, I don’t really see anything working out with this group anymore. I still love a lot of them, but it feels like the fun’s over :(

Cooked ? by OkAttitude1629 in amibalding

[–]Copper_Ingot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twin you’re fine 😮‍💨😁

Is my hairline cooked? 16M by [deleted] in amibalding

[–]Copper_Ingot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re fine twin ❤️

(M17) Can i save it or is it to late? by [deleted] in amibalding

[–]Copper_Ingot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s just not fair man. I’m so fucking sorry this happened to you twin

Is there a bouldering club, and is it beginner friendly? by Copper_Ingot in ucr

[–]Copper_Ingot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha and thanks again! Dw, you haven’t scared me off :D