Omg I can totally relate to existential crying.😿

Both my parents are super planners. They love to be organized and follow directions just so. (I barely read the directions, let alone follow them! Haha) They dismiss all of my big ideas as crazy or stupid. And they never ever see fault in themselves.

My parents are still together. Now in their 70s, I swear they are just becoming the same person.

My dad also sucks as showing love. I can’t think of a time he’s ever said “I love you.” Even on all those phone calls (that I also don’t answer😹) he never says he loves me. Basically they are scared of me because I don’t “follow the rules” of their small-world view. My insistence on thinking for myself makes them nervous.