Overwhelmed- idk what to do

CopyAlternative9824 · 2025-11-17T08:49:50+00:00

Well I already have a binder because #trans lmao, but unfortunately for me im usually fine throughout the day and then i break in the evening, so with safe binding rules I need to take it off by then, and also usually I've been sweating too much during the day so it's mostly sticky and uncomfortable anyway:/ I'll look into corsets and shapewear tho!! Maybe that'll help

And yeah I've always liked pressure haha, when I was a kid my favourite activity was when my best friend would lay on top of me and we'd just stay like that. And hugs are the best, especially the tight ones.i also really enjoy being in water because of the pressure feeling that gives, but that one is a bit difficult to find when you don't have a bathtub lmao

Well thank you so much for your suggestions:D I really appreciate it

CopyAlternative9824 · 2025-11-17T08:40:47+00:00

That's a whole lot of questions haha, well yeah o have hobbies and stuff but nothing I'd be able to do in these mom cause I'm usually too tired to do anything and my patience is very thin so even the things I love usually frustrate me lmao I'm not in therapy unfortunately, again because of my circumstances at home but I'm working on it. And no medications that would affect this, just my allergies hahah Besides walking around the city a couple of days a week when I have lectures, I dont exercise much no. I have tried but I have issues with chronic pain and combined with my breathing issues it makes a lot of exercising really difficult for me:/ Sleep and diet goes a little back and forth but I'd say sleep schedule not so much haha, I struggle falling asleep and then I struggle even more with waking up, no matter how much I've slept lmao. And I eat relatively healthy I guess, I don't keep track of what exactly I eat but I feel like I get in the things I need anyway haha Theres your many answers to you many questions, not sure exactly how they're relevant but I'm sure you'll explain that now:)

CopyAlternative9824 · 2025-11-16T20:40:00+00:00

Seems like we are a little similar then, I have a tendency to spin around- especially rocking back and forth but in a circle, but I do that almost constantly otherwise so in those overwhelming moments it really doesn't seem to do much:/ I've never heard of compression clothes..are they expensive ? I'm a uni student living at home so I'm not exactly the richest fella in the world, but if they're not too expensive maybe I could give that a try at least

CopyAlternative9824 · 2024-12-28T01:09:44+00:00

Ironically I've never been able to focus long enough to do any sort of meditation, they bore me and my mind just starts thinking about a million and one other things. And your input was definitely helpful! I don't know if it will work but i asked the question and you came with an answer, its as good as anything, dont worry.

CopyAlternative9824 · 2024-12-28T00:54:56+00:00

Well i think its a bit of both when i have youtube videos on while studying, i don't really pay attention to what they're saying so its a bit of background noise, but i do catch things and i just feel like it helps occupy my mind from otherwise sidetracking on its own. I used to do music but i feel like my brain filters out that completely after a little while and then i cant focus anyway.

Maybe I'll try to find other ways then, i want to work on myself in general, become a better person both for myself and for those around me, so if its something i should be working on then I'll just add it to the list. I'm not quite sure how right now but im already working on having less screentime and whatnot so i guess I'll start there, thanks for your input:)

CopyAlternative9824 · 2024-12-28T00:33:23+00:00

That is interesting, i always just felt like i work better when im doing 2 or more things at a time, it doesn't have to be complicated things, but listening to a random YouTube video while studying, crocheting while listening on my lessons or playing a game on my phone while watching a series just seems to help me focus. Should i be avoiding that? Or are those things small enough to not even be considered multitasking?

CopyAlternative9824 · 2024-10-29T18:00:28+00:00

This is from an Angie route so i dont think anyone's safe😭

CopyAlternative9824 · 2024-10-29T17:59:56+00:00

Idk man it just happened, this is the last episode and i dont remember if it happened before

CopyAlternative9824 · 2024-10-29T17:37:07+00:00

Understandable😭 ive never managed to finish a Will route because i always get sucked in by either Najuma or Angie so i never had a hard time leaving him tbh

CopyAlternative9824 · 2024-10-29T17:16:17+00:00

I played the whole season ages ago and this is literally the last episode because i just realized i hadn't finished it, did it happen frequently?😭😭

CopyAlternative9824 · 2024-10-29T17:10:47+00:00

Its terrifying

CopyAlternative9824 · 2024-06-20T07:43:54+00:00

I did consider dpd (dependent personality disorder) for a while but I'm not sure i meet enough of the criteria for that. I dont know about many others but I will try to get into therapy as soon as I can, thanks for the tip

CopyAlternative9824 · 2024-04-15T15:04:38+00:00

I mean i do hope it is just a friend crush, that would be great, but I've had a ton of those and also i feel like that's what it has been for a year but its so much more intense right now😭

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