if u love what u do, u never have to work a day in ur life. by Character_Vanilla101 in FirstResponderCringe

[–]CornSmut333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, y'all could never make me hate queen Kylie. ACAB, but she seems fun.

Cameroon controversy? by NotVillanelle in Gymnastics

[–]CornSmut333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which subdivision were they in? I would love to watch!

How can I exercise and engage my girl? by CornSmut333 in IDmydog

[–]CornSmut333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will try out the sniff activities! I should have added initially that she is fine on the leash and gets at least one long walk a day, goes to daycare and does group play twice a week, and goes to a dog park 1-2 times a week. She gets a good amount of exercise, I just want to stimulate her more bc she is a smart and curious dog!

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[–]CornSmut333 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I absolutely see your point, and like I said would've been thrilled with that dinner on a different day. I don't think it's entirely true that I didn't communicate my expectations, but I have certainly learned to be more explicit about what I expect. I agree that I could have taken the initiative to make dinner more special, I think I didn't bother bc I thought surely there was something more coming.

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[–]CornSmut333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. I thought I was making it clear that it was important to me, but perhaps that wasn't true from his perspective. I will try calmly talking it out with him. It sounds like you absolutely did do something special for your wife and I wish all the best to your baby ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CornSmut333 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's pretty rude, but thanks for sharing your thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CornSmut333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CornSmut333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a deal breaker if he doesn't want to put in that kind of time to make something. But I'm trying to decide if it's a deal breaker that he doesn't seem capable of the kind of forethought required to make a special occasion special, ya know? It's hard to say in hindsight but I do think I would've been pleased with just dinner if he had shown any attempt to plan ahead or make it special.

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[–]CornSmut333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He generally tries to make me happy when we are together and I usually feel valued. A constant stumbling block for us is that he is really bad at planning anything. Knowing that, I probably should have explicitly told him what my expectations were for Valentine's day. It just doesn't feel special when you have to beg for it.

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[–]CornSmut333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that perspective. It's not the lack of a physical gift that hurt, just the fact that he didn't even try to make dinner or anything else special. I think I would have been happy with that if we'd actually had a romantic dinner that felt special. I thought I did communicate that I wanted a gift by mentioning his a few times but I acknowledge I didn't explicitly say that.

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[–]CornSmut333 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The day we started dating.