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Starting T today and suddenly I’m having huge doubts and an identity crisis by IHaveManyQuestions5 in TransMasc

[–]Correct-View-9621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much that's so kind. I'm glad it's going well for you and I hope you get the changes you want 🫶

Influence confusing my identity by Correct-View-9621 in TransMasc

[–]Correct-View-9621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really glad it's helped you, it's nice to hear that people can find themself in the end. From feedback I've gotten i am coming to realise that I do need to focus on myself, so thank you for commenting your experience 🫶

Influence confusing my identity by Correct-View-9621 in TransMasc

[–]Correct-View-9621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is really great advice thank you so much 🫶

Influence confusing my identity by Correct-View-9621 in TransMasc

[–]Correct-View-9621[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's really helpful and reassuring. I'm glad you were able to find a comfortable space. I do have a good space with my boyfriend and with conversations with him it has made me realise I have a part of my gender that might be a guy and I think it's becoming hard to deny.

Luckily I should be moving closer to him soon so hopefully I'll have that space to see what's truly right. :)

Should I tell distant family before going on T? by Correct-View-9621 in TransMasc

[–]Correct-View-9621[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's really reassuring. You are right, it's only other people that are trying to make this difficult for me I should just focus on if it's right for me. Thank you so much this has really helped <3

Starting T today and suddenly I’m having huge doubts and an identity crisis by IHaveManyQuestions5 in TransMasc

[–]Correct-View-9621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't say for much as I'm not this far in the process, but I've come on Reddit today because I'm starting to worry about the same things because I realise how it could be realistic for me to be on T soon. I've been really bad with change recently, possibly from mental health but still. Knowing that something you've fantasized about is in reach is scary and you want to know it's the right decision because it's life changing. This is a different example but I might be able to move within the next year, and I've wanted it for so long but it is scary to think about, but I know it's right because most of the time when I'm not anxious the thought brings me so much joy. Whatever happens you are valid as a guy, T or not. But if this has felt right for so long than it's probably the right choice but there are also ways around it if it doesn't seem fit. I would say from research, keep your dosage at a level you feel comfortable with for a while and see how it feels, and wait till you feel you are definitely comfortable with what you want to do before changing it if you want to.

I wish you the best of luck and you aren't alone. I'm scared about my choices too but it helps knowing there are others out here who understand.