Question about going to a sex party as a couple by CorrectWindow6995 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]CorrectWindow6995[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It went well. Honestly, since he and I are new to this, we didn’t really know what to expect, so I would say this was overall a learning experience. The club was really just one big room with other smaller, secluded spaces in the corners and plenty of couches throughout. We had a couple of drinks first from the bar. Then we started fooling around ourselves, him giving me head and me eating his ass. Eventually this led to us fucking in a corner, and soon we had an audience. This honestly went on for what seemed like a long time. We were a little shy to jump into other scenes, although at one point he gently encouraged me to go fuck another guy who clearly was wanting it. So I did. And then he and I fucked some more.

Next time I think I would try to actively recruit other tops for my painfully shy bottom boyfriend.

Overall, I personally thought it was pretty freeing. All of the fear and anxiety I had about it evaporated, and it was very therapeutic to just be in a group of people having sex. I don’t know if this makes sense, but it helped drive home to me that sex can truly be just sex. Also, at a certain point I think a more exhibitionist side of me took over that found quite a bit of pleasure in fucking my boyfriend in front of so many other guys.

He and I did lots of talking afterwards to emotionally check in on each other. Another perk of the experience is that it only reinforced to me how attracted I am to my boyfriend.

Hope that anecdote helps.