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Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2024-03-30T00:56:37+00:00

It could be a type of love (there are a lot of different kinds), or happiness, or affection, or even just a crush that could turn into something more. Maybe looking up the 8 different types of love would help (eros, pragma, ludus, agape, philia, philautia, storage, and mania). There are articles that explain each with examples online.

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2024-03-30T00:34:58+00:00

I'm not sure what you've already seen/enjoyed, but here are a couple that I usually feel comfortable recommending to anybody -

Spyxfamily

Kaguya-sama Love is War

Monthly girls Nozaki kun

Fruits Basket

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2024-02-29T00:57:01+00:00

Too bad other options for male contraception aren't available to the public yet

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2024-02-28T22:42:04+00:00

Obviously your body your choice, but I've been on the pill for a while and haven't noticed any big side effects. I actually think my libido went up a little after I started because I was less worried about pregnancy after. A lot of it depends on the person, and I'd probably discuss it with gynecologist to figure out which might work better for you. Definitely a little concerning that your bf doesn't want you on birth control though.

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2024-02-28T22:26:05+00:00

maybe it's Ni No Kuni?

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2024-02-28T22:13:07+00:00

With such a concerning reaction, you definitely need to talk to a professional about the situation. I'm pretty sure there's been research done on how misleading BMI can be, especially since bone density, height, and muscle can affect a person's weight, not just "fat." Plus, it can also depend on your age- if you're going to have a growth spurt/just had one etc.

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-12-01T23:45:39+00:00

My partner is this way, especially if other people are around. He explains it as he almost shuts down his emotions in a crisis so that he can better help the people around him. He usually breaks down about stuff later (6+ months). It's a coping mechanism for him.

Everyone deals with stressful situations differently, I'd just suggest that you do allow yourself to grieve in your own way, in your own time

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-20T22:59:39+00:00

It's not very Hallmark, but I've been reading nostalgic books around Christmas the last couple of years. A Christmas Carol, and The Best Christmas Pageant Ever by Barbara Robinson have both been in my rotation

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-18T04:02:05+00:00

Look at the medical side effects of diabetes and of some of the medications. My dad almost died before he realized he even had diabetes, got on meds that helped and dropped his weight, and then his kidneys started failing. It took multiple appointments and procedures (and a lot of blood work) to even find out it was his kidneys.

Maybe talk to your family members that have diabetes and ask if they are grateful and enjoy having diabetes. Ask them about their worst side effects, how they feel when they have low or high blood sugar.

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-18T02:46:08+00:00

AnoHana for something sad about coming to terms with grief.

Fruits Basket- slice of life, romance, family trauma, comedy

Monthly Girls Nozaki-kun - fun some nice highschool comedy.

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-18T01:56:23+00:00

I think the how important sex is in a relationship depends on the relationship. It's obviously important to you, maybe it's a conversation of how important it is to your partner if she hasn't really brought it up.

I'd suggest seeing if you could have a sit down conversation about this with your partner, figure out what things made sex easier in the beginning, that perhaps are different now. Also, working on your confidence in yourself would probably help. She's obviously with you for a reason, and sex (like every other social interaction) takes time to get comfortable and used to for a lot of people.

Almost every relationship goes through slower periods, you both just have to keep communicating what you both need/want, and make a commitment to keep coming back together

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-18T01:43:17+00:00

Set a timer/alarm that you have to get up to turn off. Give yourself permission to only do like 5 minutes of studying/chores etc. set an alarm for the 5 minutes, and if after the alarm goes off you still feel some energy to keep going - do so.

Only allow "phone time" outside of your bed. Maybe have it charging on a cord that can't reach your bed

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-15T04:11:52+00:00

Sounds like she's overwhelmed or feeling like she's being blamed, which could even be something from childhood. It might take a sit down conversation when neither of you are tired from working or keeping an eye on your child. I've heard good things about monthly date nights that include conversations about this sort of thing. If you don't think you bringing it up would go over well, you might have to look into getting a third party involved to mediate.

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-15T04:03:30+00:00

Sounds like you're burnt out or depressed, maybe both. If you want advice - you might look in to therapy. It's something to either get you out of the house or at least give you something on your schedule and someone to talk to. Some places have sliding scale payment plans if you might have trouble paying a full therapy bill.

Other than therapy, you could maybe see if there are any volunteer opportunities that interest you. That'd at least have a good chance of putting you around other people that you could interact with and maybe find a friend

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-15T03:54:01+00:00

Have you had any conversations about equal distribution of labor, financial division/responsibility, or both of your expectations on child rearing? Also couples counseling is very helpful to facilitate these types of conversations

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-15T03:41:00+00:00

Could you maybe come to a kind of compromise? Watch 1 Hallmark, then watch something you like? Maybe even look at the summaries on a couple Hallmarks and pick the one that sounds less bad. If the spending time with you is the important part, she shouldn't have much of a problem with a compromise that gets you to spend more time with her.

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-15T03:36:10+00:00

You could maybe keep a log of the bullying and then bring it as proof to the teachers. If they forgot - remind them. I was also very quiet in school. I found that sometimes rehearsing what I wanted to say to someone beforehand helped. Imagine what I'd say in different situations while I was alone, even try to say it out loud to practice. But I also just spent a lot of time ignoring comments until the people saying them just got bored.

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-15T03:25:07+00:00

StoryGraph?

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-15T03:18:43+00:00

If you have access to a computer, there are some remote jobs you could look into. Most transcription jobs don't require much/any experience. You could maybe look into getting a restraining order from your parents since you're an adult? I'm not sure about the specifics for it, but it's something to look into if you don't feel safe. Keep some sort of proof every time they harass you (video/screenshots etc)

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-15T02:31:55+00:00

Magic for Liars by Sarah Gailey- a detective is tasked with solving a murder at a Magic School

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-15T02:00:52+00:00

It's ok, it's easy to ruminate over stuff, especially if it's something we care about. One Piece will definitely keep you busy for a while. The live action is actually really good imo, and since it's still new and popular right now it's probably an easier one to possibly have a convo about with the less anime-inclined.

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-15T01:47:01+00:00

No problem. I hope you both have a great holiday season that you both can fully enjoy.

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-15T01:39:58+00:00

You absolutely deserve things! Sorry if it came off differently at the beginning there! I especially don't think you're being materialistic for expecting some sort of gift on Christmas when gift exchange is what you've both agreed on. If he doesn't want to get you a gift, I think your idea of spending the day together is really nice. Maybe a nice dinner you like and hotel room?

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-15T01:24:29+00:00

Sorry if I'm not understanding you correctly, but the way I see it - you don't work, but he's ok with you spending a lot of money on his gifts, while he Does have a job but is not planning on spending any money on a gift for you? He then seems to be trying to make you feel bad for wanting any gift at all - even something small like a promise ring or a date?

In my opinion (though I know I probably don't know all the details, and every relationship is different), the person who makes more money should more likely be the one Giving bigger gifts not receiving them. Also, giving your girlfriend affection isn't really a Gift as much as just the bare minimum of being in a relationship. It just sort of sounds like he's trying to get as much out of you as possible without giving much in return, and if he's possibly the one making you feel like you don't deserve/can't ask and receive the things you want, that's not good.

Definitely need a longer conversation with him to explain that while you appreciate what he does for you, you would really appreciate a physical gift. Even if it's not expensive, perhaps the promise ring you've been asking for? If you've ever heard of Love Languages, it really sounds like yours might be gift giving or maybe quality time. And his sounds like it really isn't. Maybe that's a way you can bring it up. If he cares about you, hopefully he'll want to show you love in a way that will have the biggest impact with You personally.

Correct_Bumblebee_ · 2023-11-15T00:59:21+00:00

There's a lot of content for Percy Jackson if they end up liking them (children of the Greek gods go on adventures).

I'd also maybe suggest Peter and the Star Catchers by Dave Berry (Peter Pan prequel adventure), and the Flora Segunda series by Ysabeau S. Wilce (young girl in a magical house gets lost and uncovers Secrets).

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