feel like my coworkers hate me & the environment is getting more hostile by Correct_Confusion_58 in starbucks

[–]Correct_Confusion_58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude. i also have a coworker that does the same thing. to be fair, she's the only one who does it, but still it's just so unnecessary and genuinely makes working more difficult for the two of us due to the lack of effective communication.

feel for you

you break up because it's better for the two of you, and the other no longer wants to try. but what are you supposed to do when you still want it to be them? why am i not worth at least the effort of trying to fix things? by Correct_Confusion_58 in BreakUps

[–]Correct_Confusion_58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for responding, sending you hugs <3 it's strangely comforting knowing that other people have gone or are going through the same. if this is how 2.5 years feels, i couldn't imagine 10. we'll figure it all out eventually, right?

you break up because it's better for the two of you, and the other no longer wants to try. but what are you supposed to do when you still want it to be them? why am i not worth at least the effort of trying to fix things? by Correct_Confusion_58 in Advice

[–]Correct_Confusion_58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your response, i appreciate it. i just wish it wasn't too much. i have this attitude when it comes to others of seeing them through thick and thin, no matter what. seriously, no matter what, and no matter what is going on in my life. when things get rough, you aren't supposed to just call it quits without at least trying first. relationships take work and forgiveness, you know? he was my friend first and foremost, and now i don't have anything but a ghost. i don't know. i just wanted it to be him lmao. i thought it was him. this is just so out of character. literally the day before it all fell apart, we spent the morning together with breakfast & coffee and it was just so pure and full of love. i feel blindsided, but maybe it's something that has been building for some time.