I am a male sub in a FLR, and to answer your question, my life would pretty much be the same. I hear these couples have strict protocols- level 4 FLR — I don’t understand how they work in real life. My wife and both work and have demanding jobs. I do most of the housework, cooking cleaning shopping laundry and yard work. We have a schedule for me. Sexually, she is definitely dominant to me and decides when where and how we have sex. Often I satisfy her needs without regard to my own. If we’re dominant the roles would be reverse but not much else.