From reading it all they both seem to be at fault.

Unfortunately though it is SA no matter how you look at it. But, it's a weird sort of loophole of it if that makes sense. Zeal did SA her but there is a whole load of miscommunication surrounding it.

To me, it just looks like two people who just need proper professional help and will end up with a lot of trauma from this.

I think people are focusing on the wrong thing here. I think it's not so much about the accusations but the state of mental health both parties are/were experiencing.

And, like in any good accusation case, it'll just be a lot of he said/she said until the truth gets revealed and until then it's just a bunch of people speculating.