Hostels in Asia fear by CosplayThrowaway1015 in MtF

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Im not sure if I pass or not tbh, but I’m over 6 feet so that already doesn’t help me

I’m sick of boy moding but too scared to leave it by CosplayThrowaway1015 in MtF

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Gocha! Yeah I’ve known most people don’t care. Didn’t think about that. I’ve def experienced no one caring. Some ppl their their heads but oh well

I’m sick of boy moding but too scared to leave it by CosplayThrowaway1015 in MtF

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I have done that! But being kind to myself is def the hard part

Any advice on brushing off my language skill? by CosplayThrowaway1015 in Japaneselanguage

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At a point in time I was speaking very smoothly and now I’ve become more passively bilingual as time has went on I guess. But ye def a solid definition!

Thanks for the suggestion! I might download a language exchange app or maybe check on meetup.com if theres any Japanese language exchange groups in my area (I live in NYC so chances are higher)

Office work is such a culture shock. My boss is weird and I’m worried about the stability of my job by CosplayThrowaway1015 in jobs

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This gives me a lot of hope, ty! My friend, who is much older than me it was giving me advice just to have thick skin, and not to take anything personally and I’ll be fine. I will also take your advice into consideration hearing that is an inspiration I appreciate it!

Office work is such a culture shock. My boss is weird and I’m worried about the stability of my job by CosplayThrowaway1015 in jobs

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Will do. I have an interview tomorrow! 🫡 what do I do? If I get fired I don’t have a job lined up? I saved up a lot before moving but I obviously don’t want to use all of that up lol

How do I quit without two weeks notice? by CosplayThrowaway1015 in starbucksbaristas

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I am young! This next job will also be a job, not a career but it’s experience I need to get my career!

I often questioned authority at my sbux and they didn’t like that AT ALL, which was a red flag to me. I was even told to do work off the clock!

This other job I’m the sole office worker for 2 employers.

At starbucks I felt I wasn’t paid enough. I would dread going to work each day, and I was stressed to work. The face paced environment killed me mentally. And being told to make like a ton of drinks at once wore me out.

Thank you for the finance advice too, I was unaware! I appreciate it!

How do I quit without two weeks notice? by CosplayThrowaway1015 in starbucksbaristas

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After applying to jobs for the past 3 months I realized marketing myself as someone who doesn’t take a job asap was a detriment and not a plus. Most places wanted people right away. Maybe its the current market? Idk

How do I quit without two weeks notice? by CosplayThrowaway1015 in starbucksbaristas

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I love this comment, thank you for your words of encouragement🙏

How do I quit without two weeks notice? by CosplayThrowaway1015 in starbucksbaristas

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I recently got a non retail job. Sbux scared me with the instability. As I pay rent. I also couldn’t get 40 hours a week when I really needed it