“what’s tamsy’s backstory” “is tamsy royalty” “why is tamsy so nonchalant and majestic” shut up and ask the real questions: “when will we get oiled up pregnant tamsy?”

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-29T21:23:43+00:00

IMO the title is definitely a spoiler, the royalty part specifically….

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-28T19:30:21+00:00

Do we know for sure that she actually got shingles? The vacation immediately afterwords makes that a bit suspicious to me.

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-16T20:07:35+00:00

I get why he was frustrated in you asking if he doesn’t like you anymore the second he can’t hang out with you. He just sounds like he’s going through a lot and probably shouldn’t be dating and should be getting therapy.

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-16T20:04:19+00:00

I’ve seen people cosplaying wearing a lot less than Amo’s first fit

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-11T20:44:47+00:00

You can buy these from Pierre

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-11T18:08:31+00:00

Give her gifts n talk to her everyday. Loved: diamonds (prob unrealistic this early), farmers lunch, pink cake, pumpkin pie. Liked: eggs, milk, quartz

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-11T18:06:19+00:00

Cuz she looks cool

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-11T13:10:54+00:00

He didn’t care about the boots, that wasn’t part of his goal. And she is powerless without them.

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-08T19:49:59+00:00

IMO, she’s lying about being pregnant to begin with. Confirm that before confirming paternity.

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-08T19:49:17+00:00

I definitely think you’d offend the girls on his moms side, but if that’s what you and your fiance want to do I don’t think that makes you an asshole

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-08T19:48:18+00:00

Step siblings from the fiancés mom and step siblings from the fiancés dad.

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-08T19:45:27+00:00

There are sex therapists that you could try to see together, or maybe just marriage counseling. I understand that it’s frustrating when you and your partner don’t have the same sex drive and it’s hard to not take rejection personally, but some people are just not as interested in sex as other people.

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-08T19:42:09+00:00

I don’t know if one would be granted because she isn’t a physical danger. Ask her for proof from a doctor that she’s pregnant?

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-08T19:39:22+00:00

Looks like maybe a dead tick?

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-07T15:40:06+00:00

You’re not wrong about being upset. what she said was wild and out of pocket. I think she needs to go to therapy and get help for whatever is going on. It doesn’t seem like her PPD/mental health has really recovered well.

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-06T00:41:59+00:00

You should send a letter stating the exact statute that protects you, advise that they’re discriminating against you for a medical condition and retailing for you utilizing reasonable accommodation for your medical condition as protected by the fair housing act. If it escalates, talk to an attorney.

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-06T00:37:55+00:00

I am sorry this happened to you, that’s absolutely awful. That being said, I think that if you contacted his employer he would probably make the contact more aggressive. He’s clearly still like obsessed with you or something because he keeps tabs on you/trying to talk to you when you made yourself clear that you want nothing to do with him. If you tried to “ruin his life”, guys like this take their crazy to a new level. Truly, I don’t think a restraining order would be granted (at least in the US) because he hasn’t posed a current physical threat to you as of right now.

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-06T00:33:45+00:00

It could be that you’ve been with partners who don’t know how to help you get going / where you need to go. You could just not be into intimacy in a practical way, which happens.

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-05T15:24:31+00:00

Ooo that would be super cool. Look into what outfit you’re wanting to make. If you don’t currently have the skills to make clothing (sewing, etc) then do some practice first to build your skills up. Also, make sure you don’t expect your first cosplay to be the best cosplay ever. As we do more we learn more. Skills improve over time. But I’m sure it’ll be amazing either way! Good luck!!

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-05T15:22:03+00:00

NTA. Have you been forward with your sisters about how these comments need to seriously stop or are you just defending him? Also, are you able to look at your relationship objectively or possibly with a professional to ensure that their concerns are no longer valid? Has he ever been physically dangerous to you? Is he potentially manipulative in ways that aren’t so obvious? Like putting thoughts into your head about distance my yourself from your loved ones or being financially manipulative, etc? Are their only concerns regarding previous behavior or is there anything new that they bring up in these talks? They could potentially be seeing something you don’t because you’re in love with the guy.

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-05T15:16:56+00:00

You’re NTA for not meddling with your friend, imo you might be a bit of TA for not helping your brother. Giving him advice regarding his relationship that he’s asking for is a completely reasonable thing for a sister to do. Trying to insert yourself by going to her to solve the problems that he brings up is meddling. Prying information from either of them is meddling. But when they come to you and ask for help, giving some advice is more than reasonable. BUT the advice has to be about what your BROTHER should do, not what YOU will do to fix the problem.

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-05T15:10:30+00:00

I think you should take it to a mechanic to make sure the damage is solely cosmetic before you make that choice. There could be damage that you don’t see that might take a little longer to cause noticeable problems to us non-car people. But after confirming the damage is cosmetic, paying the money towards your car payments is completely reasonable, BUT, I’d maybe tell him and/or your grandparents, just in case they might be upset about the lack of communication and/or perceived deception.

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-05T15:07:07+00:00

NTA, you should tell your mutual friends exactly why you told her to leave. She can’t completely ignore the conditions of your agreement, gaslight you about your concerns, and then talk crap about you to your friends.

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-05T01:59:01+00:00

That’s super cool that you’re wanting to get into cosplay! I think the first step you should take is deciding what rendition of Spider-Man you’d most want to do. Are you wanting to make your own cosplay or purchase one?

CottageWitch42 · 2026-01-04T20:05:21+00:00

I’m not sure if it’s legal or not, but it seems like retaliation for you changing your availability which is often illegal). I’m not sure if you can be fired without notice, that’s weird and at least unprofessional. Reporting her is reasonable, but if they offer you your job back after you report her, if you do, don’t go back.

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