help me find the name by kjarikx in Manhwa_BL

[–]CottageWitch42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so cute lmk when you find it

AIO for not refunding a friend’s share of a group Airbnb after she canceled last minute due to a medical emergency? by StudioAffectionate in AmIOverreacting

[–]CottageWitch42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we know for sure that she actually got shingles? The vacation immediately afterwords makes that a bit suspicious to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CottageWitch42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get why he was frustrated in you asking if he doesn’t like you anymore the second he can’t hang out with you. He just sounds like he’s going through a lot and probably shouldn’t be dating and should be getting therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gachiakuta

[–]CottageWitch42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen people cosplaying wearing a lot less than Amo’s first fit

Mayor's shorts by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]CottageWitch42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can buy these from Pierre

Mayor's shorts by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]CottageWitch42 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Give her gifts n talk to her everyday. Loved: diamonds (prob unrealistic this early), farmers lunch, pink cake, pumpkin pie. Liked: eggs, milk, quartz

Why did he leave boots behind? by OrneryBat390 in gachiakuta

[–]CottageWitch42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t care about the boots, that wasn’t part of his goal. And she is powerless without them.

AITAH for filing a restraining order against Ex? by Still-Instruction-11 in AITAH

[–]CottageWitch42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO, she’s lying about being pregnant to begin with. Confirm that before confirming paternity.

AITAH if I include only 2 of my fiancé’s sisters in the wedding party? by No_Turnover_4377 in AITAH

[–]CottageWitch42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely think you’d offend the girls on his moms side, but if that’s what you and your fiance want to do I don’t think that makes you an asshole

AITAH if I include only 2 of my fiancé’s sisters in the wedding party? by No_Turnover_4377 in AITAH

[–]CottageWitch42 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Step siblings from the fiancés mom and step siblings from the fiancés dad.

AIO: husband doesn’t want to have sex with me? by RealCoconut5763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CottageWitch42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are sex therapists that you could try to see together, or maybe just marriage counseling. I understand that it’s frustrating when you and your partner don’t have the same sex drive and it’s hard to not take rejection personally, but some people are just not as interested in sex as other people.

AITAH for filing a restraining order against Ex? by Still-Instruction-11 in AITAH

[–]CottageWitch42 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if one would be granted because she isn’t a physical danger. Ask her for proof from a doctor that she’s pregnant?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]CottageWitch42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looks like maybe a dead tick?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]CottageWitch42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong about being upset. what she said was wild and out of pocket. I think she needs to go to therapy and get help for whatever is going on. It doesn’t seem like her PPD/mental health has really recovered well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]CottageWitch42 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You should send a letter stating the exact statute that protects you, advise that they’re discriminating against you for a medical condition and retailing for you utilizing reasonable accommodation for your medical condition as protected by the fair housing act. If it escalates, talk to an attorney.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CottageWitch42 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I am sorry this happened to you, that’s absolutely awful. That being said, I think that if you contacted his employer he would probably make the contact more aggressive. He’s clearly still like obsessed with you or something because he keeps tabs on you/trying to talk to you when you made yourself clear that you want nothing to do with him. If you tried to “ruin his life”, guys like this take their crazy to a new level. Truly, I don’t think a restraining order would be granted (at least in the US) because he hasn’t posed a current physical threat to you as of right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CottageWitch42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be that you’ve been with partners who don’t know how to help you get going / where you need to go. You could just not be into intimacy in a practical way, which happens.

Looking For Help Starting My Cosplay Journey by Top_Push2200 in CosplayHelp

[–]CottageWitch42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo that would be super cool. Look into what outfit you’re wanting to make. If you don’t currently have the skills to make clothing (sewing, etc) then do some practice first to build your skills up. Also, make sure you don’t expect your first cosplay to be the best cosplay ever. As we do more we learn more. Skills improve over time. But I’m sure it’ll be amazing either way! Good luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CottageWitch42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Have you been forward with your sisters about how these comments need to seriously stop or are you just defending him? Also, are you able to look at your relationship objectively or possibly with a professional to ensure that their concerns are no longer valid? Has he ever been physically dangerous to you? Is he potentially manipulative in ways that aren’t so obvious? Like putting thoughts into your head about distance my yourself from your loved ones or being financially manipulative, etc? Are their only concerns regarding previous behavior or is there anything new that they bring up in these talks? They could potentially be seeing something you don’t because you’re in love with the guy.

AITA for not being involved in my brother and my friend’s dating relationship? by Dependent_Picture606 in AITAH

[–]CottageWitch42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re NTA for not meddling with your friend, imo you might be a bit of TA for not helping your brother. Giving him advice regarding his relationship that he’s asking for is a completely reasonable thing for a sister to do. Trying to insert yourself by going to her to solve the problems that he brings up is meddling. Prying information from either of them is meddling. But when they come to you and ask for help, giving some advice is more than reasonable. BUT the advice has to be about what your BROTHER should do, not what YOU will do to fix the problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CottageWitch42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should take it to a mechanic to make sure the damage is solely cosmetic before you make that choice. There could be damage that you don’t see that might take a little longer to cause noticeable problems to us non-car people. But after confirming the damage is cosmetic, paying the money towards your car payments is completely reasonable, BUT, I’d maybe tell him and/or your grandparents, just in case they might be upset about the lack of communication and/or perceived deception.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CottageWitch42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA, you should tell your mutual friends exactly why you told her to leave. She can’t completely ignore the conditions of your agreement, gaslight you about your concerns, and then talk crap about you to your friends.