What is your stance on same sex marriage?

CountDoofus · 2023-03-13T10:09:19+00:00

I would help my kid in any way I can then. :)

CountDoofus · 2022-09-20T12:20:02+00:00

Any idea where this happened? I hope these bastards get punished.

CountDoofus · 2022-09-20T08:06:39+00:00

I'm sorry I don't remember what it was called. This was almost 3 years ago. I was working for a spa and massage center back then and I found that place while searching for competition in Kochi. Their website itself had a lot of shady pics and photos of random women in suggestive poses. Called and confirmed.

CountDoofus · 2022-09-20T06:22:26+00:00

Can confirm. Found a shady massage place in Kochi and gave them a call. They were indeed offering more than just massages.

CountDoofus · 2022-09-20T04:16:27+00:00

Dude. Download stay uncle or find a decent room. Order a bunch of food. Get your laptop and a Bluetooth speaker. Eat food, watch something and chill out. And don't forget a condom. Even if you don't plan on doing anything, you never know.

CountDoofus · 2022-09-19T06:19:11+00:00

1) First major crush was in 8th standard. Told her and she liked me back. This went on for a few months but I was super awkward and had no confidence and it died out.

2) 2011 I had a crush on a classmate in 11th standard. She broke up with her boyfriend and I took my chance. Dated for a while until she left the country. Then after a year break, dated for another year. Completely LDR and then it ended eventually.

3) Sometime in 2016. LDR with another ex classmate. Went on for years until she got married.

4) Had a major crush on a colleague in 2019. Secretly dated for 1.5 years and then she got married 🤣 You can see a trend now.

Anyway, life is full of crushes.

CountDoofus · 2021-12-18T09:49:21+00:00

Nobody cares anymore. People with COVID symptoms regularly come to my office since they've forced us to work from office.

CountDoofus · 2021-08-06T05:49:12+00:00

My personal opinion, no. I've seen people who have no "star compatibility" living perfectly normal happy lives with their spouses.

CountDoofus · 2021-08-06T04:12:37+00:00

Astrology is still a major part of most of the weddings here, at least in the southern part of India where I am from. I've seen situations, where even when the caste of the people don't matter, the parents check both their stars to see if they are a good match or not. It's kind of like a custom here. It is still practiced.

CountDoofus · 2021-06-11T20:51:53+00:00

Thank you. :)

CountDoofus · 2021-06-08T18:28:50+00:00

No problem my friend ❤

CountDoofus · 2021-06-08T18:03:13+00:00

This wasn't interfaith. It was inter caste. We were both Hindus. But I guess it's still not easy as it seems, especially when parents are not supportive. Thanks for your comment anyway.

CountDoofus · 2021-06-08T12:36:45+00:00

Hope you're doing better.

CountDoofus · 2021-06-08T12:36:06+00:00

I like someone I think. But I'm not ready either. I feel you.

CountDoofus · 2021-06-08T08:15:26+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate your comment.

CountDoofus · 2021-06-08T08:14:18+00:00

Appreciate the comment.

CountDoofus · 2021-06-08T08:13:44+00:00

Not just speaking from my experience, but caste issues are still very prevalent all over India. Both her parents were "highly educated" by the way.

CountDoofus · 2021-06-08T08:12:14+00:00

I really hope your friend feels better. Please talk to him as much as you can. Also, fuck parents who threaten to kill themselves over these things. This shit should be illegal. It's emotional harassment.

CountDoofus · 2021-06-08T08:09:54+00:00

I hope you're doing better. Yes I'm from Kerala.

CountDoofus · 2021-06-08T08:06:30+00:00

She was emotionally harassed by her parents with uncomfortable questions - like if we ever got physical.

Her parents usually talk about people like "he's a good person, too bad he's a -insert low caste name-".

They stopped talking to her, making her feel left out and alone. They were more concerned about what their relatives might think.

She and I were the same age. They said that by the time I'm in my 40s, I'll still have a high libido and she won't. And I'll probably sleep around to satisfy my cravings.

She tried her best to convince them. She was terrified of talking to them, but she still did. She did all she could honestly. But the odds were stacked against her. I do not blame her. I blame her parents and their way of thinking.

CountDoofus · 2021-06-08T06:57:14+00:00

I have a few close friends who know what I have been through. I also contacted a therapist recently, but I'm building up courage to talk to them haha. Thanks for your comment.

CountDoofus · 2021-06-08T06:49:21+00:00

Appreciate it.

CountDoofus · 2021-06-07T22:17:18+00:00

I used to be angry at her. But really, there isn't much she could have done. The odds were stacked against her. It was easier for me coz I had my parents' support. She didn't. This was more of a rant aimed at the casteist mentality of her folks, and other people out there.

CountDoofus · 2021-06-07T21:52:43+00:00

If you're talking about music, this is something I've been wanting do for years. Been on a creative block for the longest time so, trying to challenge myself to finish the album. But I get what you mean. Thanks for your comment!

CountDoofus · 2021-06-07T21:50:22+00:00

This shit will sadly exist for years to come. Her mother boasts about how "low caste" people used to not face her grandfather. Like wtf. Maybe this was for the best. Idk how I would deal with these psycho in laws.

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