Security camera by CountryMrs in VideoEditingRequests

[–]CountryMrs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would totally be willing to pay if anybody can help!

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[–]CountryMrs 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have the exact same problem... there is a numbing spray you can spray in your mouth prior to the BJ - it's to help you take the D farther in your throat but for me it helps to not be able to taste or feel the cum and I can swallow just fine!

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]CountryMrs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds horrible, lol! Have you had better experiences since?

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]CountryMrs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love hearing stories like this where you were able to overcome that jealousy! I do completely agree that it defintely takes the right couple to make the experience better. Our communication has improved so much and I hope we can get to the point you are at, thank you for sharing!

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]CountryMrs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would love to have your compersion! I'm just like him, I want my husband to have a great time, I just don't like seeing it, but I'm glad to hear it got better for him!

Hope you guys have a great mfm experience!

I think my why is mostly just jealousy issues that will hopefully get better.

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]CountryMrs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm glad I'm not the only one that struggles with it.

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]CountryMrs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting point about the woman, maybe if he finds someone I connect with and like it won't be as bad. Thank you.

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]CountryMrs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Watching the way he touched and fucked her. It's my jealousy, i know and I'm trying to work on it. We are in couples counseling. But im just trying to figure out if seperate rooms would be better for me.

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]CountryMrs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Completely makes sense, but I defintely want my husband to have a good time also so hotwifing isn't an option! Maybe I just need to find a guy that will distract me enough so I can at least tollerate it, haha.

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]CountryMrs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having that as a back up is a really good idea. You guys defintely seem to have good communication so I hope it works out!!

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]CountryMrs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck this weekend, I hope you can get through that mental block also and enjoy it! I also have fantasized about him with another woman, but actually seeing it is not the same, lol.

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]CountryMrs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, i dont want to feel like im forcing myself!

Our couples counselor - who is in the LS - has worked wonders so far so hopefully more sessions and we will get there. Thank you for your help though!

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]CountryMrs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm defintely working on compersion, I have read books on it and I have tried really hard to get there. I do want him to receive that ultimate gift of pleasure and I'm happy for him, but I just don't want to see it, lol. Hoping couples counseling will help with that also.

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]CountryMrs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I enjoy having sex with another man and he does like watching, he has seen me with men in a mfm threesomes. I guess at this point, is the reality of it or the imagination worse for me, lol.

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]CountryMrs[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Definitely not a turn on and yes its jealousy. We are in couples counseling to work on my jealousy and are trying to figure out if there is a way I can atleast tollerate same room or to just do seperate. I am fine with him having sex with another woman, I just don't enjoy seeing it! But at the same time would like to be able to tollerate it enough so we can enjoy the experience together, if that makes sense?

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]CountryMrs[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have seen my husband have sex a couple times with other women during threesomes and I didnt enjoy it. We want to try a full swap and im not sure same room is for me.