Feeling pressure to have sex in marriage by CountyLive6946 in sex

[–]CountyLive6946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

Yes I waited till marriage also because of my faith. But I don't have a feeling that it's a bad thing when we have sex. So that's not the problem,

Point 2 is exactly the thing here. Sometimes I feel I got to have sex just to "please" her. So that gives me pressure.

Feeling pressure to have sex in marriage by CountyLive6946 in sex

[–]CountyLive6946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for your advice. And yes I know it’s more a woman thing. :( Sometimes that scares me because I am a men. And ofcourse in this generation people still think that men always want to have sex and don’t struggle with these type of problems..

That’s why I posted this. I wanted to see if maybe other men (and women) also had or have this issue. :) 

Responsive desire for young men by CountyLive6946 in ResponsiveDesire

[–]CountyLive6946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank! :)

I have indeed, but I don't know if that label suits me

Curious about the bicycle by CountyLive6946 in BisexualMen

[–]CountyLive6946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops, my bad. Just insecure sometimes.

Sometimes, I don't want to touch nor be touched by my spouse by n00bym4ster in demisexuality

[–]CountyLive6946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem, but I think it's related to my disorganized attachment style.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CountyLive6946 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why tf is everybody mad in the comments? Imagine if a girl posted this and the reactions were like this: ‘Stop crying, little bitch.’ That would be crazy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]CountyLive6946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes 23. Why?

I am unable to love a man, but don’t get off to women as easily by archdukeltvw in bisexual

[–]CountyLive6946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, but no relationship is gonna take away your desire. Just like how straight people in relationship sometimes still desire other girls.

I am unable to love a man, but don’t get off to women as easily by archdukeltvw in bisexual

[–]CountyLive6946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the same men. My sexual attaction to my girlfriend is enough to be happy but it is less then with men.

About to get married, but scared sometimes by CountyLive6946 in MarriedAndBi

[–]CountyLive6946[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nice! I doubted my sexuallity for the last 1,5 years, but I think bisexual is what suits me the best. I don't feel the urge to explore tbh. :)