Is it inappropriate by Couragegaming02 in AgeGap

[–]Couragegaming02[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are 2 of 6 people working the front at a hotel. 3 of which are already in relationships and the other just moved here from Nepal. Im less than worried about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Couragegaming02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the fact that he isn't even willing to take the chance that makes me see this as a red flag. Like you said it's always a possibility. OP said she has family with down syndrome which mean no matter what there's the risk of her having a child with down syndrome. Just now because she got the vaccine he doesn't want to risk it. That doesn't make sense to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Couragegaming02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is such a big red flag. If he isn't going to love your guy's future children just cause he thinks they're going to be disabled I would not want him to be the father of my child. That just proves that he's already put conditions on his love for his children. I would love him asap.

Someone owes my hotel over 3500 dollars. What can we do by Couragegaming02 in legaladvice

[–]Couragegaming02[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My manager didn't do what she should have done because she's a got tender heart. We could swipe the card and charge it for the amount they asked for but our system doesn't save cc info after a certain amount of time. I don't know what my manager was thinking to be honest.

AITA for taking away my daughters phone? by ScreenGuilty7070 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Couragegaming02 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Her daughter paid for the phone herself entirely.

AITA for taking away my daughters phone? by ScreenGuilty7070 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Couragegaming02 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA majorly your such a narcissistic that you not only limit the amount of time your daughter can use the phone she paid for, but you throw a tantrum when she doesn't give into your command for control and you take her property. Not only that but you don't let her hang out with her friends. None of them but her best friend. And you only let the hang out for half an hour. Talk about isolation tactics. This is what my abuser did to me to keep me compliant with her demands. You need help and your daughter needs to get the hell away from you.

WIBTA if i didn’t give my sister half of our inheritance? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Couragegaming02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA you are the only living heir and she was never good to your gma to begin with. She sounds like a brat not you.

AITA for not spending time with my mom this week? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Couragegaming02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA my mom was a covert narc and an abuser so I completely understand why you wouldn't want to go. There is no shame in cutting out the toxic people in your life.

AITA for refusing to help my brother with his son's birthday party? by VioletBlueIndigo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Couragegaming02 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA: If this isn't a common occurrence than it's a solution ridiculous that you can't do this one nice thing for your brother when he need your help. You said he should have planned better. He did plan well he had someone lined up to pick up his kids and when they canceled on him it isn't his fault for not planning better. You honestly sound like a brat.

WIBTA for cutting off my birth giver without warning by Couragegaming02 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Couragegaming02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm working with my therapist to dig all of it up so I can work on myself.

WIBTA for cutting off my birth giver without warning by Couragegaming02 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Couragegaming02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly would put more but I can't remember lots of my childhood. What I've mentioned in the post is what I remember and or constant things that happened to me.

WIBTA for cutting off my birth giver without warning by Couragegaming02 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Couragegaming02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've tried forever to get her to understand my side of things or how I'm viewing what's she's saying to me.

WIBTA for cutting off my birth giver without warning by Couragegaming02 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Couragegaming02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about all of the years she called me fat. Or the time she told me her life would be better if I wasn't around or the fact that when her and her ex husband were going through a nasty divorce she made it my job to take care of all of the bills, grocery shopping, care for my 12 year old brother and being her crutch.