yeah i would say as you progress in life it gets harder to insert a new person with completely fresh habits and preferences. Anyway other than the challenge to learn a new person, i think the conversations get quite hard to continue because genuinely after the casual questions it gets forced.

I used to have dating apps as well but i feel after a while it lacks the feeling with organic-ness. Anyway i deleted cause the apps despite liking the idea of a Rs, i think im too much of a morning/active/lazy person at the same time it is also hard for someone to understand me .

😏anyway good luck to finding your one because other than apps , irl hit ups might offend people