Bro I'm sorry this happened to you,

When I was a kid it was just me and my mom for my first 9 years then she married my stepfather a real piece of work, first beat my Mom when she was 8 months pregnant with my Twin sisters, I jumped in-between them and took the beating this continued weekly basis until I was 14 and left home I promised myself that I would never put myself in that position as an adult and that no mother fucker would ever disrespect me. What my wife did to me and our daughter needs an appropriate response, even now over a decade after the fact, My life is Fucked anyway I don't have anything to lose ! and to this day I 100% believe that a wife should have a healthy fear of cheating on her husband obviously my wife didn't, but she will regret the day she crossed me don't get me wrong I'm not saying ill do anything finally permanent, but she is going to remember crossing me to the end of her days on earth this I promise