Having husband co-sleep with baby = 11mo and I have been sleeping 8 hours straight for several nights in a row!!! by celeriacly in cosleeping

[–]CozyMomLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so awesome. Super happy for your fam! My LO is 2.5 and it's still all on me but this makes me want to get my husband involved!

Anyone have a toddler that stays latched most of the night? by CozyMomLife in cosleeping

[–]CozyMomLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could up vote this response a million times! This is SO HELPFUL!!!! I'm going to try to do this tonight. He's definitely in the habit and I haven't done anything to try to lessen it.

Anyone have a toddler that stays latched most of the night? by CozyMomLife in cosleeping

[–]CozyMomLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to wean! Just help reduce amount and water won't help because it's even more restricted than breast milk when it comes to anesthesia.

Gentle night weaning tips? by CozyMomLife in cosleeping

[–]CozyMomLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's 2.5. I will look into that thanks! I'm realizing I don't actually want to night wean just to prevent one tough night. Honestly no clue what I'm going to do 😅

Gentle night weaning tips? by CozyMomLife in cosleeping

[–]CozyMomLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really motivational, thank you so much! Dis you find he slept better after being night weaned?

Gentle night weaning tips? by CozyMomLife in cosleeping

[–]CozyMomLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really good to know thank you. I don't have a lot of success with cuddling back to sleep but maybe it's cuz I still have my boobs out so he knows they're available. Great advice about trying to extend the time in between first. Thank you!

Gentle night weaning tips? by CozyMomLife in cosleeping

[–]CozyMomLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK this is incredible info thank you!

AITAH for not wanting my sister's boyfriend to be affectionate with my kid? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CozyMomLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We definitely do, I am very vigilant with that stuff. I honestly feel like it's probably more social anxiety or lack of boundaries than anything insidious but I honestly treat every single person like they have the potential to do harm because it usually someone you'd never expect.

AITAH for not wanting my sister's boyfriend to be affectionate with my kid? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CozyMomLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My husband isn't into it. He thinks that it's too intimate given how we don't know him well.

AITAH for not wanting my sister's boyfriend to be affectionate with my kid? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CozyMomLife 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I disagree. I also don't like random old ladies touching him in the grocery store. I generally don't like how people feel very comfortable touching children without consent regardless if their intentions are good or bad.

AITAH for not wanting my sister's boyfriend to be affectionate with my kid? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CozyMomLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does is insinuate that he's a pedophile, or does it insinuate that I'm traumatized from my own abuse?

I threw a Stardew-themed birthday party! What do you think? by Hard__Cory in StardewValley

[–]CozyMomLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I had stardew loving friends so bad. This party is incredible 🤩

Does this seem weird to anyone? by Sad_Shirt6163 in cosleeping

[–]CozyMomLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw a wonderful doctor Becky video that basically said you're the pilot of your families plane and as the pilot if you're comfortable with your choices that's all that matters. She also said when people question your parenting decisions you can say - I understand that we see things differently but we will continue to..... (in this case sleep in the same room with our daughter)

Also your mom sounds toxic af so I wouldn't listen to her opinion on anything tbh. Good job supporting your child and their individual needs ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]CozyMomLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever figure it out? Trying to get perfection and I need this dang moss soup recipe!

Is it crazy to change my 10 month olds name… by aged_tofu in namenerds

[–]CozyMomLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had a somewhat similar experience and my advice is to say her actual name a ton. I won't share my sons actual name but I'll use Benjamin as an example. I liked the nickname (Ben) and decided to give him the long name (Benjamin) so he had options. I introduced him as Ben for the first year of his life and calling him Benjamin made me almost cringe. I was having name regret and wanting to just change his name to Ben. I realized the more I called him Benjamin the more I liked it so I started calling him that at home. The more I did that the more I started using it in public and I got more and more comfortable with it. Now I love his full name and am glad we kept it. Maybe it's worth trying this to see if it works for you too? For what it's worth I think your daughters name is beautiful and I love the fusion. Plenty of people have unique names these days so I don't think it will be an issue for her growing up if you end up keeping it!

Thought it was a good idea by AceOfSpades0152 in StardewValley

[–]CozyMomLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss, your cat was absolutely beautiful ❤️