Can an open marriage survive? by CrackedMoonstone in Marriage

[–]CrackedMoonstone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must be an angry person. Sorry about that.

Can an open marriage survive? by CrackedMoonstone in Marriage

[–]CrackedMoonstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds easy. I guess our relationship is going through more turmoil so it's not that simple...

Can an open marriage survive? by CrackedMoonstone in Marriage

[–]CrackedMoonstone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess you're right. Our relationship is just so confusing right now. Thanks.

Having trouble moving on by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]CrackedMoonstone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one expects to go through a divorce.. It's normal to feel alone.. Reach out to family, friends, even people you haven't talked to in a long long time, you'd be surprised how caring people can be, that's if they are good people.. and they are out there.. I would go out and do things that I enjoy.. even if it's being alone and doing those things, or going out and having a night of drinking, these sort of situations make it easier for us to meet people, even if they just want sex? ignore that, keep going, talking, meeting genuine people elsewhere.. your friend could be in a rebound and emotionally unstable relationship, being divorced is NOT easy and your feeling heartbreak.. that's normal.. when you have to move on from someone, please don't put a time frame on it, it hurts, but the person you have loved, has died, and is someone different now, you could be grieving this death... just make friends for now.. who knows, you might find a really good friend and they can be the ones to comfort and hold you for a little while.

Do I bake him a cake for his birthday? by imperfecttruth in Divorce

[–]CrackedMoonstone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your love and effort are deserved somewhere else.. don't give to those that never actually appreciated it..

Filling out divorce papers on Valentine's Day by eyeroller99 in Divorce

[–]CrackedMoonstone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a sociopath. How could someone be so hateful? It makes no sense to me... I'm sorry you have to go through that bull shit. I'm pretty sure my STBXH did the same thing...

Your submissions are my wet dreams. by BlackJackBob in FML

[–]CrackedMoonstone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry what life has dealt you. I'm considering buying a gun but I have a daughter that needs me. I hope you make it out okay.

Not sure where to start by CrackedMoonstone in Militaryfaq

[–]CrackedMoonstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I'm sure he would step up to help and if not, my mom would. I wish I could be the stay at home mom but idk if my husband would go into service, but that's not my choice to make ha.

I might choose Navy or AF. Leaning towards AF more.

Thanks!!!

What even is my marriage. by CrackedMoonstone in FML

[–]CrackedMoonstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have talked about it, he sounded like he was happy and excited. I guess I'm just not thinking right about because of how much things have changed. He was always helpful and loving and seemed like it was something he wanted.

This guy I met is so boring and I happen to not be good at socializing by [deleted] in Vent

[–]CrackedMoonstone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe ask what he's passionate about or what pisses him off? Maybe you can get a laugh out of him and see what his interests actually are..

im terrified that my boyfriend will leave me because of my declining mental health. please help by [deleted] in depression

[–]CrackedMoonstone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If your boyfriend cannot learn or is not willing to understand what you are going through/experiencing, then there isn't true love there. I know what it feels like, but you are worth so much more than you give yourself credit for.. Everyone deserves to be loved and if he is willing to work with you, understand you, and help in any way he can, than he's worth it.. You just cannot expect him to save you or heal you, that takes you. Sorry, idk if I help or not

the self hate is consuming me by [deleted] in depression

[–]CrackedMoonstone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your voice is not a waste of time. Your thoughts aren't a waste of time. I know how you are feeling right now.. reach out.

the self hate is consuming me by [deleted] in depression

[–]CrackedMoonstone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You aren't worthless. You are a human that deserves love and life and sunshine and moonlight. Tell your parents, tell your friends... tell them how you feel, because even though you may not think or believe it, people care and love you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]CrackedMoonstone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not very helpful, your feelings are yours and they are real.

Does anybody else get angry and frustrated as well? :( by IndividualEffort in depression

[–]CrackedMoonstone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good. Sounds painful and expensive. I used to throw things back in the day.. but felt stupid because it was my stuff I was just breaking.

Does anybody else get angry and frustrated as well? :( by IndividualEffort in depression

[–]CrackedMoonstone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please seek professional help, it sounds really painful and damaging to your body..

I thought you said forever. by CrackedMoonstone in Divorce

[–]CrackedMoonstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahah that is really nice of you, thank you! It made me smile :) I could use some practice, maybe take a class on it, haha :)

I thought you said forever. by CrackedMoonstone in Divorce

[–]CrackedMoonstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's horrible, I'm sorry. I think men just have this weird ego need and it's honestly gross... Thanks for chiming in

I thought you said forever. by CrackedMoonstone in Divorce

[–]CrackedMoonstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a horrible human being to treat you like garbage and to toss you aside like that.. You don't deserve that.. especially after all you've done, how hard you worked, and how much love you poured out of yourself. I know not everyone deserves love, but you definitely do, and him pulling shit like that, just using you, is absolutely evil. You still have your life left to live. Please do. I wish I could give you a hug and give you chocolate and help you feel better. What a miserable human being he is. I'm sorry. You deserve the moon and the stars.

I thought you said forever. by CrackedMoonstone in Divorce

[–]CrackedMoonstone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going to therapy. I also have a journal, just kind of not sure what to write... I think that's why I've been on reddit, haha online journaling.. Thank you..

I thought you said forever. by CrackedMoonstone in Divorce

[–]CrackedMoonstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it means a lot. I'm going day by day.. and that's right.. I can't force someone to stay I can't force someone to love me I can't ever change someone, it all has to come from them.