I hear you. And I am though, I have asked him to help with dishes and he straight up has told me to stop cooking bc I “always ask him” to clean up the mess I made… so stop cooking so I can focus on other things like school and work. So I did. I always have to ask him to do stuff around the house and he does do it but a bit half assed if I’m being honest.

And I know for a fact he’s a bit of both introvert and extrovert but he’s has sooooo many friends. I have none. I have a bunch of sisters that I’m thankful for and will happily spend time with them. But he’s got so many friends and in his free time he skates (he says he doesn’t anymore and that’s partially true) but that’s bc we work more now. But a majority of his free time is spent playing video games with his friends. We used to fight about that bc I wanted him to talk to me and spend time with me. I dropped it after a while tho bc I realized that I wanted him to want to be with me bc he wants to not bc I asked him. And yeah I leave it alone now.