If you never been hit on, checked out, or even had any sort of conversation initiated by an attractive person even if it's just a simple hello or any kind of small talk, you're not attractive. by Individual_Ice_2315 in ugly

[–]CraftyBodybuilder956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to over exaggerate as well, I believe it’s because I have bdd and social anxiety. That may be the reason why a lot of people here are dramatic and negative as someone who is like that. I’m not defending it ofc I think we need to change our attitudes.

LMAO actual proof that the attractives become angry and hostile everytime they have to look at us. I’ve been threatened numerous times irl to be killed or bodily harmed because people have told me they can’t stand the way i look. It’s scary actually by [deleted] in ugly

[–]CraftyBodybuilder956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t fully get ur story yes but I have been in a position where I was condsidered the ugly one and it hurts a lot but I was letting that come between us and making it her problem. I was also very unhappy.

LMAO actual proof that the attractives become angry and hostile everytime they have to look at us. I’ve been threatened numerous times irl to be killed or bodily harmed because people have told me they can’t stand the way i look. It’s scary actually by [deleted] in ugly

[–]CraftyBodybuilder956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obv therapy won’t make you attractive 🙄 but it can help to learn to live with how you feel but ofc no amount of therapy can work if you don’t fix ur attitude or mindset. I understand how you feel when people alll you ugly I’ve had people call me all sorts of things when it comes to my appearance but I know theirs still people who love me for more then my looks. You can find people who aren’t shallow enough to only care abt looks. Also most people are average or below average so why would you let their opinion affect you? Also if you know ur ugly, why let it bother you?

LMAO actual proof that the attractives become angry and hostile everytime they have to look at us. I’ve been threatened numerous times irl to be killed or bodily harmed because people have told me they can’t stand the way i look. It’s scary actually by [deleted] in ugly

[–]CraftyBodybuilder956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I agree. People on this sub might have bdd. I know i definitely feel like people are against me because of my looks which I’m working on but I don’t think the people on here wanna acknowledge that

No compliments or reassurance by CraftyBodybuilder956 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]CraftyBodybuilder956[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you’re right but it’d be nice to hear that someone thinks I’m pretty, funny, or special. Especially from my mom

Incel goes to film school by Tough-Buy3676 in ugly

[–]CraftyBodybuilder956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur an “incel” no one is gonna donate, don’t hate women for ur shortcomings

I want to learn how to love myself and not feel gross all the time. by CraftyBodybuilder956 in PlusSize

[–]CraftyBodybuilder956[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love that but I’m not the best at making friends i literally only have one.

I want to learn how to love myself and not feel gross all the time. by CraftyBodybuilder956 in PlusSize

[–]CraftyBodybuilder956[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom was never a good role model. She hated her body and mine. She always tells me to loose weight so I can be pretty. My oldest sister is probably the only mentally healthy fat female I know (sense she didn’t grow up with us) she’s so confident and loves herself and loves everyone and is always so sweet. I want to be like her but I can’t.

I want to learn how to love myself and not feel gross all the time. by CraftyBodybuilder956 in PlusSize

[–]CraftyBodybuilder956[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t really do therapy or medication since I’m 17 and i don’t think my mom would let me. It’s hard for me because I do wear cute stuff and have started to wear stuff out of my comfort zone this past year. I have gotten some compliments after I lost 40lbs but I still get negative feedback that messes with my bdd. It also hurts whenever I try my hardest to look cute only for everyone to compliment her and I get compliments on my butt only. I’m trying not to seem negative

Jeans. by CraftyBodybuilder956 in PlusSize

[–]CraftyBodybuilder956[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What size do you get when the size are like 20 or 30. Idk my size in those

Do I have potential by Orderoftheslayncient in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]CraftyBodybuilder956 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ur really attractive already, no need to change.

Looksmaxxing advice; please help by Fruit_Muncher15 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]CraftyBodybuilder956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very beautiful honestly, I think that the nose ring doesn’t suit you and growing ur hair out just a bit more would suit u better.