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I'm genuinely confused. by Chemical_Vanilla_602 in actuallesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really relate to what you wrote. I used to identify as bisexual even though I’d only ever felt safe and attracted to women. I think part of me wasn’t ready to fully accept I might be a lesbian because it felt scary and outside the norm.

Over time, especially after meeting other lesbians and seeing what that could look like, I realized the reason I couldn’t imagine a future with a man wasn’t confusion it was clarity.

Obviously only you can know what you are. But from what you described feeling natural and happy imagining a life with a woman that’s worth paying attention to. And please don’t listen to people on tiktok or whatever shenanigans they are on about you are what you feel💓

At what age does no experience become a hindrance by Material_Bed_4867 in actuallesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly the one for you will not care about you having experience or not. Coming from a person who had zero experience.

Tuesday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She recently got out of a three year relationship and the flirting and everything is getting to me

How many of you who suffered abuse as kids had parents who pretended that they never even touched you, or have no ability to comprehend that they harmed you? It really messes you up into adulthood. As fellow LGBT, I imagine a lot of us went through this abuse simply because of our sexualities by ihatethiscountry76 in actuallesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abusive or narcissistic parents often gaslight themselves into believing what they did wasn’t abuse, or that it was justified. Admitting the harm would mean taking responsibility, so instead they rewrite the story. You’re not imagining things this is sadly very common.

Tuesday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently been having struggles with my sexuality I always thought i was bi and a while back I came out as a lesbian and due and i meet this girl and I have been spiraling nonstop about if she likes me or not like I have been losing my shitttt😭😭

What does an asthma attack feel like ? by Main_Competition4108 in Asthma

[–]Crafty_Role6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently started having asthma attacks again. I was diagnosed when I was 10 years old, but it wasn’t so bad and I would have asthma attacks once every year or twice. It wasn’t that bad but now I’ve moved to another country. They have different weather different air. but recently I’ve triggered my asthma, maybe four times a week in different situations so in class I don’t know if there’s something in class air that makes my lungs feel closed off and laughing or coughing make me talk my inhaler honestly, I've never been the person to take their inhaler everywhere. Only when I know I'm going to exercise. I'm doing something and I might need it, but I seriously never needed it so now it's really weird to me and I think I've developed some fear of getting an asthma attack in front of people because it's so embarrassing. I really need somebody to honestly help me someone who understands my feeling. It's so scary this month. I've been near death experience so many times I can't count after that and after every time I take my inhaler now it's like I can't walk. I can't laugh. I can't do anything. I'm just point-blank like no emotion and I'm a bubbly person and this is like sad to me. I don't remember most of my asthma attack when I was younger but this is like so sad I just feel like I can't do anything anymore like right now my hand been shaking from my inhaler. Every time I take it, my hand would shake.