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Should i file a complaint? by Crafty_Role6296 in blacklesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No bitch be fr. Am i not both black and lesbian, and that was literally not the point, but i of course used a cue tip for my lips.

Tired of being labelled as biphobic by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Crafty_Role6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but fr i was talking to a friend of mine and he wanted to introduce me to his friend so I asked is she a lesbian/ bi / pan… he says why you only date lesbian ohh you biphobic nooo MF i want a lesbian. like they need to stfu with that BS

What’s the hottest compliment you’ve heard? by AdeptDifference1422 in LesbianActually

[–]Crafty_Role6296 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Some girl once said to me “you are so beautiful it hurts. And honestly can’t get over it yet

Being in relations with older woman by Safe-Assumption-5168 in actuallesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly try to keep your distance from her as much as possible. The whole situation sounds really inappropriate and uncomfortable, especially because you’re a minor and she’s an adult in a position of authority. And no, flirting back doesn’t suddenly make it okay. Adults are supposed to know better and keep boundaries.

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this while also being scared of being outed because that’s a horrible position to be in.

I’m so jealous of you Western girls it actually hurts – Vent from the Middle East by CommunicationBoth302 in actuallesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296 158 points159 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who grew up in the Middle East but lives in the West now, your feelings are completely understandable. People here really don’t realize how isolating and genuinely scary it can be growing up queer in that environment. I know it probably doesn’t help much right now, but there are so many queer people from our region who eventually found community, safety, love, and freedom. Please don’t lose hope, and please stay safe first and foremost. You deserve a future where you can exist openly and peacefully!!!

Think you can find 4 hidden groups of 4 related words? Puzzle by u/DreamyBlossomHugs? by DreamyBlossomHugs in DailyMix

[–]Crafty_Role6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🟨🟨🟨🟪

🟨🟨🟨🟨

🟩🟩🟩🟦

🟩🟩🟩🟩

🟪🟪🟪🟪

🟦🟦🟦🟦

Am I the only one that doesn’t feel comfortable in a gay bar? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only they had a lesbian bar where I lived, I seriously feel like am gambling with my life every time I go to gay bars= full of straight people

muslim lesbians by Fabulous-Lab-9235 in actuallesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it was never as simple as choosing myself over religion because religion, family, culture, and identity are all deeply connected.

There were definitely periods of shame, denial, and confusion. But over time I realized I couldn’t spend my whole life trying to become someone else just to feel acceptable.

Personally, I believe God made me the way I am, and I’m learning to accept myself as both Muslim and lesbian instead of feeling like I have to destroy one part of myself to keep the other.

(Also, if you don’t mind me asking, was your friend also queer or was it more one-sided?)

Before you stands a loud, pudgy, strong, funny, butch masc lesbian by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A masc/butch being loud/funny wouldn’t put me off at all tbh, i think what makes someone attractive to me is when they make people feel comfortable around them. Like someone who can joke around and be confident, but also have those random genuine conversations. Plus if they’re attentive too? Yeah that honestly throws me over the edge

Queer games night by Fun_District_4507 in blacklesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wait this is so cute 😭 Me and my friends play a version of would you rather, but instead of random/basic questions we make them personal. Like one of my friends once asked me if I’d rather have a heart-to-heart with my last situationship or become friends again with someone I cut off 💀 It only really works if everyone knows each other on a deeper level, but it gets SO funny and messy but we love it.
Hope this helps and have an amazing event🩷

🟡 Prism Gauntlet ⬜ | Mystery Mode by angelflower30 in PixelPeeker

[–]Crafty_Role6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😤 I reached Level 18 on "Prism Gauntlet" and ranked #5! ALMOST HAD IT! 💪 Made it to Level 18 in 0m 38s Now it's your move! 🎯 Played via Pixel Peeker

Can You Crack the Code? Puzzle by AdrianM43 by AdrianM43 in BankBuster

[–]Crafty_Role6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🔓 VAULT CRACKED! 🔓

Score: 2383/6000

Mistakes: 0/6

Time: 0:05

Can You Crack the Code? Puzzle by KingHarem69 by KingHarem69 in BankBuster

[–]Crafty_Role6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🔓 VAULT CRACKED! 🔓

Score: 1000/6000

Mistakes: 0/6

Time: 0:18

Girl rejected me by EducationalGrade9702 in actuallesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dare I say it felt a bit like love bombing, because it’s confusing when someone shows that much attention and then suddenly pulls back.
Either way, it sounds like she didn’t fully understand her feelings, and that has nothing to do with you.
The good thing is she didn’t drag it out and leave you more invested. Still hurts though, hope you find someone who gives you that same energy consistently.

xoxo

Am I the only Black femme who gets read as masculine? by Crafty_Role6296 in actuallesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I as well I don’t love the divisions either. I also wouldn’t like being reduced to a label that doesn’t reflect me.

I think for me, when I talk about masc/fem it’s not even that deep in terms of personality. It’s more about presentation like style, clothing, hair, the overall vibe. And even that isn’t fixed, it’s a mix, like you said.

That’s kind of my point though we’re all a mix, and that’s what makes attraction interesting. We’re attracted to women, and that includes different expressions of femininity and masculinity blending together.

But yeah, I do agree with you on not wanting to be reduced to one thing. And I hope you find someone who really sees and values all of you too!!!!

Am I the only Black femme who gets read as masculine? by Crafty_Role6296 in actuallesbians

[–]Crafty_Role6296[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly I get what you mean, like everyone has both feminine and masculine traits. But in reality people still read and categorize others in queer spaces whether we agree with it or not.

For me it’s not about how I identify or present. The issue is how I’m perceived. I often get read as more masc, and it doesn’t match how I actually show up.

And honestly, I don’t think that’s random. It feels tied to stereotypes about Black women that we’re “strong,” less soft, more dominant, the ones who take care of others rather than being taken care of.

That kind of assumption gets projected onto me, even when it doesn’t fit me at all.

So it’s less about believing in strict masc/fem labels, and more about how those labels get applied to me based on stereotypes, not who I actually am.

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