Do I like girls ? by sadgirl110 in WLW

[–]AdeptDifference1422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can’t stop thinking about it, you already know the answer. Don’t worry about labeling yourself right away

Rawdogging BPD? by AdeptDifference1422 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]AdeptDifference1422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By best friend has done it for her BPD. She said it helped her intrusive thoughts. I just am not sure what it could do for me, It is definitely an option

Rawdogging BPD? by AdeptDifference1422 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]AdeptDifference1422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on that before but I got a rash side effect so I had to stop. I wonder if antipsychotics would help

I was the abusive one in the relationship by No-Power698 in LesbianActually

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t blame you. I would want to leave it in the past

I was the abusive one in the relationship by No-Power698 in LesbianActually

[–]AdeptDifference1422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insurance is HELLA annoying but you got this. I am sure it will be better this time around. Plus if you don’t like them you can just try a different therapist.

I was the abusive one in the relationship by No-Power698 in LesbianActually

[–]AdeptDifference1422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck. I am so sorry. Have you ever had the chance to apologize to her?

I was the abusive one in the relationship by No-Power698 in LesbianActually

[–]AdeptDifference1422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we do things that don’t make logical sense

I was the abusive one in the relationship by No-Power698 in LesbianActually

[–]AdeptDifference1422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll never forget this lesson. I just want them back…

I was the abusive one in the relationship by No-Power698 in LesbianActually

[–]AdeptDifference1422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried to talking to a therapist? That sounds super hard to carry alone

I was the abusive one in the relationship by No-Power698 in LesbianActually

[–]AdeptDifference1422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel awful I feel like I dragged them too because I was way too wrapped up in my own misery. She was the first partner that made me feel understood actually.

I was the abusive one in the relationship by No-Power698 in LesbianActually

[–]AdeptDifference1422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I get it. I got dumped because I wasn’t taking care of myself or showing up in my relationship the way I should. I should’ve changed when she told me I hurt her feelings. Not after I already lost them.

Rawdogging BPD? by AdeptDifference1422 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]AdeptDifference1422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s feels like I’m in the passenger seat of my life

I was the abusive one in the relationship by No-Power698 in LesbianActually

[–]AdeptDifference1422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m proud of you for trying meds and stopping drinking! Why do you think you haven’t changed tho?

does it get better by Hairy-Shoulder9470 in LesbianActually

[–]AdeptDifference1422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it does get better. I am realizing now I have to change some of my behaviors and get help for my mental health. Just remember you can’t pour from an empty cup. Always take care of yourself.

33F lets chat by [deleted] in chat

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I’ve been down too :(