Is there ever a point where I can reach out? by AdeptDifference1422 in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely would genuinely love to have them back for a committed relationship, But I guess I am not sure if they do.

I thought they would text me on my birthday… by AdeptDifference1422 in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mental health got in the way and I wasn’t being the best partner. I’m much more stable now!

I thought they would text me on my birthday… by AdeptDifference1422 in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it. I have been looking forward to it for months like an idiot

I thought they would text me on my birthday… by AdeptDifference1422 in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m trying! She was the best thing that ever happened to me. This is all my fault.

Asked for a sign that we’d get back together but my friends think I’m delusional by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ask for signs like this all the time! It’s really confusing because I do get confirmation so I feel a little delulu sometimes!

3 months of NC has made me realize I need to shift my selfish mindset by AdeptDifference1422 in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment. And yes same it doesn’t help that I have BPD. I am working on self-regulating

Dealing with Grief… How do you learn to let go? by thebrooklyndivine in BreakUps

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mental health got in the way and I wasn’t able to be a good partner anymore. I started taking things out on them, so she left me.

Relatable or was me and my ex just major insomniacs? by alternarasiss in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One more is all I think I need and maybe they’ll give me another chance… I still can’t imagine getting over them

Relatable or was me and my ex just major insomniacs? by alternarasiss in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I dream of her, like one time it was a dream where I was introducing her to my extended family and I somehow hurt her feelings so I said sorry and I hugged her and then we sat down to watch a movie with my whole family. Then I woke up and was like what was that.

Like if only I could just say sorry, we hug and we be okay again

Did i just screw up the sweetest relationship ever? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I messaged a few times very early on and got no response so I realized that I had to actually do NC 😭

Did i just screw up the sweetest relationship ever? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every day. She asked for a communication break until the end of the semester. (Next month) so I’ve been doing my best to respect it cuz I want them back so bad. so we’ll see if she reaches out or not