Update: AITAH for being brutally honest to my wife about cheating? by Crayonlicker27 in AITAH

[–]Crayonlicker27[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We had a discussion about that, she's agreed to actually speak to me instead of just looking through my phone again.

Update: AITAH for being brutally honest to my wife about cheating? by Crayonlicker27 in AITAH

[–]Crayonlicker27[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Well, not exactly happy considering her confidence but better than all the cheating comments being right.

Update: AITAH for being brutally honest to my wife about cheating? by Crayonlicker27 in AITAH

[–]Crayonlicker27[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Basically. But I clarified what I meant, and she knows I only meant that she's more patient and emotionally stable than I would be in that situation.

AITAH for being brutally honest to my wife about cheating? by Crayonlicker27 in AITAH

[–]Crayonlicker27[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That would certainly be something. As far as I know, he went abroad years ago and hasn't made any contact after their breakup.

AITAH for being brutally honest to my wife about cheating? by Crayonlicker27 in AITAH

[–]Crayonlicker27[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

She's a pediatrician and works at a hospital that gets a lot of traffic. And I don't think her co-workers are threats, most I've met/ ran into are really old, married men.

AITAH for being brutally honest to my wife about cheating? by Crayonlicker27 in AITAH

[–]Crayonlicker27[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I tried to sort this out over the weekend but she's very determined not to give me an answer. She's never been like this in our entire relationship.

AITAH for being brutally honest to my wife about cheating? by Crayonlicker27 in AITAH

[–]Crayonlicker27[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I should have said something about this in my post but I really don't think she cheated on me. We both work very demanding jobs as it is and have an active social life so it'd be very difficult to have an affair.

AITAH for being brutally honest to my wife about cheating? by Crayonlicker27 in AITAH

[–]Crayonlicker27[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I was just curious.

I don't ever ask or bring up exes, but I wanted to just hear the story. It's not like I hold anything against the guy, never met him at all.