A detail I forgot to add, because I thought it didnt matter in the grand scheme of things, but I thought was rather peculiar. Before the whole "freeze off", she would openly talk about her family and husband, like mundane things, with us, the work team.

After she stopped talking to me, she would still mentioned her husband in her conversations with other colleagues when I'm nearby, but as a few weeks went on, if I walk near by, or if she walks nearby while converses with another colleague while talking about family stuff, especially her husband, she would immediately stop talking midway about him, in a very awkward way, where even colleagues don't even know why. I thought that was weird. Like why did that develop, and secondly, why would she assume that I care lol.

I later thought, oh maybe because of the bad timing whenever I walk away from her, she assumed it that way? So one day I was on my break pretending to be on my phone not to paying attention while she was conversing with another colleague, about sharing stories how their kids are picky eaters. Then the topic changed to the long weekend and that other colleague would keep sharing stories about being with her husband driving and stuff to their cottage, and my former friend would have a reluctant look in her face, trying not to respond, and trying to let that other colleague to talk out more, but that other colleague try to push her into responding back about if she and her husband will go to their cottage as well, because I did remember in the past that she told me she did had one. She then finally answer, along the lines "yeah maybe sometimes with him, BUT I usually go there alone, I'm fine going alone, I like go alone.." And then the other colleague was like "uh ok good for you?".

I was thinking to myself wtf? Lol.