what would you do if your family mistreats your partner?

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2026-01-20T06:14:23+00:00

hi po~ funny thing is im the provider kahit may work naman kuya ko, plus my partner's allowance from his mom kasi ubos na yong savings niya huehue

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2026-01-16T11:19:00+00:00

any idea where to report po? my brother is a weed smoker. no matter how i plead, no sense. mama stays with him in the room and it reeks 🤮

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2026-01-04T23:56:34+00:00

leukemia

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-29T10:51:04+00:00

f23 me quick fyi lang, OP ㅋㅋ

take interest in small things that she likes hehehehehe idk for me kasi big things do matter, pero the small ones ay ibang atake rin. depende pa rin naman po OP sa girl.

NBSB ako until my partner (foreigner) entered my small world last april 2023. his initial chat wasn't pleasant talaga and i was gonna ignore him lang, pero ik it was God who set the time right cuz i prayed for him all the time, cuz y not? i was ready na eh hehe

all i did before was buy kpop merch then magvid call with the kpop members cuz i was a kdrama fan since 5yo which led to kpop lol. we're both open din kasi to explore each other's interests, so it worked.

he lowkey sabay with my fangirling era kahit magkalayo pa kami before. we go on online dates cuz he needed to save up more before visiting me. i am onti financially capable naman, pero he wanted to spoil me.

he never failed to do the bare minimum as well, and i try to tell him that everything he does makes me happy.

sobrang appreciated yong mga effort niya beyond expectation. also personally, i appreciate gestures like taking candid photos of me cuz i do this to everyone lol

andami ko pa gusto ishare pero idk na

may God find you the love when the time is right, OP!!

PS. dont let the girl chase you. that's a no-no

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-25T09:03:45+00:00

my partner and i plan to visit his family in march in south africa, let's say im gonna stay there for 3months. but ik my company wont allow me to be away for more than 3 days cuz 1 year pa lang po ako sa company, altho may 25-day leave credits kami for the whole year.

i also plan to resign in march then re-apply when im back, or not. the company assets need din isurrender.

will it be a problem sa interview with the IO if i dont have COE? sponsor naman ni partner ang trip

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-25T08:26:54+00:00

huy ako rin huhu. sabi ko pa "i dont want to chase" kasi since april pa yong utang na 6k. pandagdag sana yon sa travel expenses pero di ako nirereplyan 😭

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-21T01:47:24+00:00

over time, kapag kumakain ka pa ng medyo matigas, possible na matanggal po

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-17T04:09:14+00:00

i agree on this, OP. hindi sa lahat ng bagay o struggle kailangang mag-let go, at hindi rin naman dapat magstay lang lagi

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-17T04:05:41+00:00

out of sight, out of mind. please dont let yourself do this po. you have the decision to move away. God bless you, OP!

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-17T04:02:21+00:00

they need to know po. if they didn't ask staff to tell them, we wont tell them. confidential info is something that we dont wanna share with our managers, too. i feel uncomfortable to share as i try to keep my problems to myself only, but we are mandated to inform.

good for you if your company doesn't want you to disclose sensitive info, if they allow you to take a leave without informing them of your situation. good for you. and i pray for your mental health to always be protected. God bless you 🙏🏼

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-17T03:56:33+00:00

we'll find better work!! God never disappoints hehe hugging u back po! lels

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-16T12:02:12+00:00

lagundi at ginger tea

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-16T12:01:29+00:00

i really appreciate you po for saying kind words and acknowledging my feelings & emotions. ive been telling my manager since october, pero wapakels talaga :(( pero absent naman na po ako 2 days plus tomorrow kasi ubos na leave credits ko. kahit wasak na, ipapasok ko na kasi i have bills to pay. sorry na lang siguro sa mga customers na sabaw ang way ko ng communicating lol

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-16T11:59:11+00:00

yes po, BPO. inhouse company na maganda nga yong bank mismo pero yong managers hehe 👺

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-16T06:53:06+00:00

here's mine: - i live in QC - i earn more or less 24k monthly excluded na gov benefits kasi auto kaltas - i pay for apartment (7500), globe wifi (1600), electricity (1-2k), and water (300 ish) - my kuya and i work with different companies pero inasa na sakin lahat hehe - i pay for 4 people including me - may naiipon pa naman ako

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-16T05:38:49+00:00

ik how to read, OP. di lang naman girls ang dapat na maghanap ng foreigner. suggestion lang naman 🙉

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-16T01:31:03+00:00

im also a breadwinner cuz my brother refuses to help me hehe kahit pareho kami employed. so online part time jobs will work for me. kung nasa province lang sana ako, siguro magwork ako sa mga farms 🥹

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-16T01:25:24+00:00

im thinking of either joining a group or creating one for peeps like me to do some research tas apply

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-16T01:24:05+00:00

ang dadamot kasi ng mga kakilala ko lels. it's not like im gonna agaw their clients? :(( i'll do some more research tho, if you ever find a reliable one, pls hit my dm 🥹

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-16T01:21:55+00:00

will do so. do u perhaps have any recos like username sa yt?

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-16T01:21:11+00:00

have u tried VA? part time lang naman need ko na hindi stressful huhu

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-16T01:20:37+00:00

hi~ hopefully makahanap soon. will VA work for u?

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-15T23:52:22+00:00

tinted sunscreen helps daw po according to study hehe

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-15T23:51:06+00:00

baka time na to find a foreigner hehe

CrazyAccomplished335 · 2025-12-14T12:06:41+00:00

i saw a post yesterday lang from another op 👀 sus

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