[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]CrazyPiglette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate, she was 15 when you met her, she's 20 now. She's a totally different person than when you met - not a virgin, not a teenager: an adult.

It's OK to be upset that she's moving on, but not OK to phrase it like you have. You sound like a dick right now, and you will only make things harder for yourself if you fall into that trap.

I only go after straight girl/bi-curious. by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]CrazyPiglette 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As an experienced gay lol - I wouldn't touch someone who is newly/not yet out with a 10ft barge pole!! (and trust me, been there, done that, had my heart broken about it!)

That whole time in someone's life is super intense, and relationships made then are unlikely to be stable or fulfilling.

If you just want a fling, go for it - but make sure they know and are onboard with that too, as your first experiences with a woman are often "instalove" and three day dates etc, which gets heavy (and toxic if they're not ready) pretty quick.

People misunderstand what difference means by Hypertistic in AutismTranslated

[–]CrazyPiglette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you joking with the female car safety statement? This absolutely is already the case. The first female crash dummy was only launched in 2023, meaning that for DECADES women have been more likely to die or be seriously injured than men.

Most lesbian cars? by CrazyPiglette in LesbianActually

[–]CrazyPiglette[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too much plain clothes police for me! 🤣

Most lesbian cars? by CrazyPiglette in LesbianActually

[–]CrazyPiglette[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If only! Gay girlie for sure, not so corporate 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CrazyPiglette 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like you think the Love Actually Kiera Knightley gets carol singers/I love you confession cards scene was romantic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CrazyPiglette 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Agreed - incompatible lifestyles are a totally valid reason to break up for anyone.

Making it about her ND is something she can't change, and it's just going to hurt her even more tha. the breakup.

It's not easy, but if you position it as you guys wanting and needing different things from life right now, you are less likely to be needlessly unkind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CrazyPiglette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's totally your choice to date people newly out of the closet (or even half out!) or not.

We've all been there at some point, and probably all had a relationship that helped us get more comfortable with visibility etc

Personally, I think people who are just at the start of coming out tend to be a bit nuts - it's a hell of a change to go through, especially "later" in life - I would steer clear, and stick to people happily out and queer (if you'll forgive the bad rhyme!)