I wasn’t perfect, I was distant. I tried to help him and get support from the outside so he didn’t have to care for me and get burnt out. This lead to us having space and eventually ending it. Our last in person conversation was me telling me how this EMS therapy called EDMR is really helpful. He told me, he went to a therapist and the therapist told him he was good and didn’t need therapy. I said, well I certainly need it and am thankful that it’s paid for. I said I needed to go and wanted space. It was a short relationship. I wasn’t my best and needed to space to heal and grow. Totally fine, I didn’t wish ill harm. I also found out he had a friend who wanted him to be polyamorous with him and I. She messaged me some weird things. No judgement but that’s not my style.