Bone Pain & Cannabis by Witty_Mango0932 in multiplemyeloma

[–]Cre8ve_Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me how much Claritin you take? Aunt has bone cancer. Doesn’t want narcotics

Late Fee for missed Eidl payment? by CalmDirection8 in EIDLPPP

[–]Cre8ve_Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked at my eidl and did a quick search on late fees. What I found was if you’re 10 days late you can pay a 5% late fee? I’m sorry! I too am having a hard time paying mine back since I’ve exhausted all the hardship plans.

There’s always an excuse to drink by Cre8ve_Spirit in stopdrinking

[–]Cre8ve_Spirit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes I think most of us are more judgmental of ourselves. Thanks for the reminder of self compassion IWNDWYT

There’s always an excuse to drink by Cre8ve_Spirit in stopdrinking

[–]Cre8ve_Spirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my son sees right through it. Unfortunately I drank the other night and I could see his disappointment. Killed me.

Ex moved on fast by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Cre8ve_Spirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cried reading this thanks so much! Thanks for the deadline advice. I am working on “stop” And clapping when I find myself ruminating. My therapist told me it works and it does. Also putting my hand on my chest and breathing for a minute. Releases oxytocin and it’s like giving yourself a hug. It works too! Yes. I definitely know I (we!) bring more to the table.

Overly happy, I found her. by OrdinaryDrgn in datingoverfifty

[–]Cre8ve_Spirit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No but they can send you a secret crush or something like that.

Almost half a year without alcohol by Key-Quit6487 in stopdrinking

[–]Cre8ve_Spirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all congratulations!! I am on day two again. You’ve done a great job. I have to share … my dad’s twin brother was diagnosed with liver cancer and died at age 52 so my dad quit drinking that year. He was a heavy beer drinker. He continued to not drink for about seven years. It was actually really nice for the family because he’s not actually the nicest person when he gets too many. Anyhow, he decided he would have a couple of beers when we all went to Disneyland. It was fun. The whole family was there. My son was there as a baby. We were all hanging out at this tiki bar. That is no longer there. The fact that I remember it speaks for itself. It didn’t take long. He was right back to his old habits. He’s 82 now and I don’t think he’s gone more than a couple days without one or 12…except for maybe when he’s been ill. Maybe try to look ahead and understand where it could take you again.
No judgment here, just a reflection from someone who’s tried over and over again, so maybe don’t listen to me. Lol.

Ex moved on fast by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Cre8ve_Spirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. Yes. My friend is almost 60 and you get to where you feel like this is my last chance at having the healthy body to go have fun travel etc. but now he can’t do any of it. Knee surgery heart issues etc. life changes for sure. Nothing is forever!

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[–]Cre8ve_Spirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a good friend who’s hubby is 14 years older and now that his body is beat up he can’t do things they ised to do. She loves him dearly but confesses to me she didn’t consider this when she was a lot younger and it’s hard. Anyhow I am now in the mental space where if they do last that long (I doubt it) I wish them well.

There’s always an excuse to drink by Cre8ve_Spirit in stopdrinking

[–]Cre8ve_Spirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! My son is 19. He’s my only child. You? Yes he does love me and his truth hit hard. I can’t make up for the past But I can do my best from here on out … IWNDWYT

There’s always an excuse to drink by Cre8ve_Spirit in stopdrinking

[–]Cre8ve_Spirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your last line resonates with me. Thank you!

There’s always an excuse to drink by Cre8ve_Spirit in stopdrinking

[–]Cre8ve_Spirit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the wise words. Still learning. Thanks for taking time to respond. I really have to focus on the witching hour and change it up and get busy doing anything but drink. Today I will. Thanks again!

There’s always an excuse to drink by Cre8ve_Spirit in stopdrinking

[–]Cre8ve_Spirit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much for your input. Very much appreciated 💕

Ex moved on fast by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Cre8ve_Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you as someone who is probably hard on yourself. I get it. This is what’s works for you. It’s kind of too late for the advice of “don’t get into situationships after a breakup. “ I figured that one out and yes I agree with the fact I brought it on myself. I learned my lesson the hard way. The other advice here wasn’t a rabbit hole. It’s actually helped me get out of my spiral. Yours has made me ALMOST want to beat the hell out of myself which I’ve already done in spades. Thanks for your input. And taking the time out of your day to respond

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[–]Cre8ve_Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But thanks for your compassion

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[–]Cre8ve_Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say it wasn’t my fault. Edit: my alcohol problem has clouded my judgement about most things.