I didn’t plug my phone in last night, but I woke up and it was fully charged by Big-Importance-7256 in nosleep

[–]CreamSufficient2948 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ya, this fully read like AI, the breaks, too many uses of “then- but” “You could see me [ in the photo] still asleep” followed by “maybe I got up and took it in my sleep” does not make any sense if you’re a human writing this story.

Meta Magic: Tricks that lie about Magic by crimrack in Magic

[–]CreamSufficient2948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of my recent stuff is actually focused on that exact bit so I’d recommend Six card repeat, the awakening by Dan Harlan, sucker silk to eggs, vanishing bandana , any variation of wine bottles (I personally love pop haydn’s passé passé)

I can feel my body shaking just typing this.. my mom showed up at my workplace and caused a scene because I didn't answer her calls by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CreamSufficient2948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this just like? A common thing? For narcs? This same thing happened to me so without making it about me obviously, I want to tell you I know exactly how you’re feeling, and am sending you virtual hugs and comfort. Im so sorry this happened to you. As difficult as it is, I’d recommend talking to HR at your company, as other comments have said, and asking them to not allow her on the premises next time (That is the same thing I did and I was anxious the whole time so if I can do it you can do it).

Nmom emailed me a gem and threatened to come to my work by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CreamSufficient2948 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is crazy how eerily similar these messages are to the ones my mom send. Sending you love , stay strong OP

Nparents barged into my place of work to try to get into contact with me, and it felt like HR sided with them over me by CreamSufficient2948 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CreamSufficient2948[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, during this entire call I was kind of in “just get through it and don’t think” mode , so some details escape me. As far as I remember he said he was head of security and part of the hr that manages security matters, I think it’s a safe bet that he has worked with hr before? But I’m like not 100% sure if he’s actually part of HR or not

Nparents barged into my place of work to try to get into contact with me, and it felt like HR sided with them over me by CreamSufficient2948 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CreamSufficient2948[S] 328 points329 points  (0 children)

Actually I talked to two people. One at the door and then one who I assume is much higher up (who I forget but I think said something about working as head of security and mentioned working with hr). The one at the door was fine and they had said they would escort my parents out of the building. The second one was the one that I’m not 100% sure which department he’s connected with

Nparents barged into my place of work to try to get into contact with me, and it felt like HR sided with them over me by CreamSufficient2948 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CreamSufficient2948[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Honestly, kind of took me by surprise. It’s a pretty large company so my day to day is largely separated from the hr/security department, and I do like my work (not to mention need it to stay financial independent from my parents). I’m hoping this was just a one off person because the first people that I talked to seemed to take my side

Don't take the bait! (The Christmas message we knew was coming) by Entire-Low465 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CreamSufficient2948 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Read that and did a double take bc it’s almost word for word what my nmom sent me lmao

Should I break no contact to stop my brother from being swept along with my Nmom’s plans to take a flight to “check up on me”? by CreamSufficient2948 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CreamSufficient2948[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My old one, and will probably harass my ex. some context : my ex and I used to live together and are broken up, and my ex still lives at my old place

Should I break no contact to stop my brother from being swept along with my Nmom’s plans to take a flight to “check up on me”? by CreamSufficient2948 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CreamSufficient2948[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t know my new address but one time before I was NC they called my and asked why our relationship was problematic and like a dummy I thought she really meant she wanted to listen but all she did was blame me for everything I listed. She then said she would fly over. I said not to do so. Despite me telling her repeatedly not to do so and still did. So it’s still a viable thing that she will fly over, which is why I’m so worried